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sound ofRelationship and lifestyle blogger, Kwadwo Panyin (The African Bachelor) explores the topic of sexual pleasures, the sound of sex and faking it!!! Disclaimer: You will learn absolutely nothing from this piece but hey, if you have 5 to 10 minutes to spare, be my guest!  The views expressed here are based on my own experiences and observations. For my overly religious brothers and sisters, I still have lots of love for you but please, do not read any further. When it comes to sex, I have one objective in mind. Unlock all your secrets and waves of pleasure by engulfing every inch of your body. Taking off your clothes, grabbing your panties and slowly pulling them down (my favorite thing to do), the deep and long-drawn sighs, the sloppy kisses, the intense moans, the primitive growls of lust, the passionate shouting of names, the dirty whispers, the delicious smell of your erogenous zones, certain body part swelling with desire and the sweet taste of your rainforest. If you horny then get very horny as the slow sliding begins, the acceleration from slow to violent thrusts, the grip of your waist to enhance the trusts, the taste of our kisses after our lips have been everywhere, the slight parting of your lips as you moan, turning your head to look back at me with pleasure glazed eyes, the high pitch scream of painful pleasure after a smack, the way you move to let you me deep inside. All these intense inputs and sensations are hammering you and me at the same time. Pleasure so intense that it releases the beast inside us. Well, damn! Add the sounds of sex into the mix of this intoxicating medley and you can actually cause a seismic eruption of sensual pleasure coursing through your entire body. I unlock your secrets just to hear the sound of you coming; the sound of your big moment of eruption.

Think of the sounds of sex as a pleasure appetizer.
Raise your hand if you have ever had a lover roll over after sex and ask, “Did you come?” It’s a complicated question because a woman’s orgasm is not always obvious. For men, the answer is very simple. We curse and grunt when we race to the moon. There is irrefutable evidence after we pull out. When it comes to women, however, it’s a complicated story. I started thinking a lot about the sounds of sex after an orgasm related episode with a woman. I’m coming! I’m coming!! Oh Yes! I’m coming!!! She screamed Instinctively, I reacted to the screaming announcement of her impending “arrival” by cranking up the intensity. I wanted and needed her to explode.  Before long, I felt myself racing to the moon with her. The intensity got to me too. When her screaming stopped, I allowed my swimmers the much-needed passage through the canal and collapsed on the bed with her. “Oh God! That was good!” She said “I love it when you come,” I replied. “Uhmm, I did not come,” She muffled under her breath “Wait, what! You did not?” I quickly sat up “No, I did not.”  She said with a straight face. “It’s okay, Baby.” “So why were you hollering about coming?” I demanded to know “Because you were taking forever and I’m tired. I just wanted you to finish so I can sleep. You know you always come quickly when you know I’m coming too.” She argued “Seriously!” I shot back. “You faked it.” Conventional wisdom and the media may have conditioned us to define orgasms with loud moans, accelerated breathing and a declaration of “I’m coming!” right before one crosses the finish line. Boy, if only it was that simple. Fellas, do not always assume that she’s moaning and screaming because you are pounding her good or she is about to have a mind-blowing orgasm. Some women may be screaming, telling you to go faster or moaning with pleasure all to turn you on, stroke your ego and make you come faster when she is ready to call it quits.  I am always willing to be wrong about this assessment though. Just like everyone has different erogenous zones which turns them on, not everyone’s orgasms will sound or feel alike. Some don’t let out a peep while others throw caution to the wind and scream like a banshee when they are plugged in. Allow me to fill you in on the types of noisemakers and different orgasms I have encountered. IMG 5179 The Chorister She screams the whole time during sex. It’s like having sex with a soprano. She makes a sound with every thrust, every movement, every touch. If she does not scream the whole time, her head will explode. I had to wonder if every sound is pleasurable for her or if her screams intensified the pleasure. I look for the chorister to hit the high notes when she is near orgasm and finish with a high pitch scream. Sometimes, I encourage her to push her face into a pillow so my neighbors can sleep in peace. Did she come? If she stays monotone the whole time, she probably did not make it to the mountaintop. The Ventriloquist She is a silent and quiet for the most part. Her volume settings are set to low until a move jolts her up a decimal. I see her grabbing the sheets a lot with breath-holding precision. I feel like asking her if she is enjoying it but I dread the answer. She stays quiet up until the big moment, and then she gets all high-pitched and screechy. Did she come? I never asked so I do not know. The Shaker What can I say, I love shakers and twitches. I have not encountered a lot of shakers out there but they are among us. My advice, if you find a shaker, hold on to her. One Shaker I was with looked like she was having a seizure during her big moments. She loses total control of her body starting with her legs and her whole body trembles. I love watching the shakes with a broad grin on my face. Did she come? Heck yeah! Shakers can never be fakers. Faking a shake will make any woman look simply ridiculous. The Bedsheets Changer I love the bedsheets changers as much as the  shakers. Bedsheet changers are very rare and I have only encountered two. They are rarely seen and heard from so finding one is equivalent to striking gold. The only downside is a soaked bed when it is all said and done.  The first time I encountered a bedsheets changer, she failed to warn me about her ability to spray volumes of warm rainforest juice all over the place. She was on top of me and I felt her tighten up, her thighs shook a bit, she raised herself up and gushed all over me. Well, hello there!? Some of the projectiles made it all the way to the headboard above my head. ‘Oh, I am so sorry!” She said. I laughed and replied, “What are you talking about? Do you see me running to go take a shower? You just gave me the best shower in years! Can we go again?” Did she come? Yes, she did and it was wet, warm and lovely! The Strangler There are those out there who can only have an orgasm through close contact munching in the rainforest. Care must be taken though because a beast is definitely unleashed when she is coming. When the moment arrives, she lifts her pelvis, pushes her hips into you and wraps her legs tightly around your neck until the storm passes. One woman damn near strangled me to death with her thighs. I was trapped; I could not breathe and I could not scream. Attempting to loosen her grip was like trying to pry a bone from the jaws of a hungry dog. I just prayed and hoped the storm passed before I lost consciousness. Did she come? She did and nearly killed me in the process. God’s Best Friend Not sure if she got the memo about not using the name of the Lord thy God in vain. She called on God every time she got super excited during sex. Oh my God! Oh my God!  Eventually, she starts saying “Oh my God” faster and faster until she reaches and crosses the finish line. After she is fully satisfied, she declares; “God, that was good!” So I asked her one day. “Hey, what does God have to do with this?” We are obviously committing a sin so why are you calling on God?” Did she come? You can’t call on God while faking an orgasm. If you do, that is like doubling up the sin. The Announcer The announcers are usually the talkative ones. As she makes her initial approach, she announces her impending arrival. As she gets closer and closer to touching down, she repeats the announcements over and over again; I’m coming! I’m coming!! Oh Yes! I’m coming. Did she come? I know one who did not and the jury is still out on the others. The Hand Shaker Her rainforest pretty much clenches up when she is coming. Her rainforest always gave my baby-maker a very firm congratulatory handshake as a result of the clenching during orgasm. I could always feel her heart pounding, her breath getting shallow with a few gasps, her grip tightening and her rainforest walls starting to contract and gets tighter around my baby-maker.  The tightness always led me to mentality shut myself from beating her to the mountain top. The firm grip on my baby-maker does wonders for me. Did she come? Hmm, I will lean towards a yes for sure.

The occasional “I’m coming!” or  “Oh Yes! or “Oh God! Yes.” can all be realistic sounds of sex that can make the whole experience so much fun and exciting; as long as no one is faking it.

Think you know what a real orgasm sounds and feels like?
By Kwadjo Panyin IMG 0050 Photo Credits: Model: Abena Green Photographer: Yoneh Maura]]>

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Understanding Fri Data Abonnement

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These days, it’s practically impossible to escape mobile phones.  Throughout the world, a lot of us simply need these devices to get basic tasks done – not to mention to work at our most efficient! This is certainly true here in Norway, which is likely not a huge surprise.

Once we accept that these mobile devices are simply a part of our lives these days, the next thing to think about is how they work. Specifically, how we have access to cell service and internet services when using our phones – it’s a question that everyone has to wonder about at some point.

Today, we’re here to cover how cell phone services work, what options there are, and how you can access a free data subscription. The tricky part of this can be deciding which one we want for ourselves, seeing as there are a ton of factors at play.  

If you’re someone who wants to switch service providers, or you’re a first-time cell phone user, you’ve come to the right place! We’re here to explain all of the intricacies that you may run into, as well as provide some advice on what types of plans to prioritize. Stay tuned!

What Are Cell Phone Plans, Anyway?

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Cell phone plans are service agreements offered by mobile carriers that allow customers to access voice, text, and data services on their mobile devices for a monthly fee. Chances are, you’ve heard of them before – they’re pretty popular all across the world. 

Now, these plans typically include a set number of minutes, texts, and data. They may also include various features such as international calling, mobile hotspot capabilities, and unlimited streaming. Naturally, customers are able to choose from a variety of plan options based on their needs and usage habits.

Types of Mobile Plans

There are several different types of these plans – you can read more about them on this page: https://www.nist.gov/publications/cell-phone-forensic-tools-overview-and-analysis-update?pub_id=51100, if you’d like some sort of reference.  With that said, let’s take a closer look at some of the broad options that you may encounter.

Prepaid Plans

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These sorts of plans were popularized by the “Tracfone” brand, but there are plenty of other companies that offer this as an option. Simply put, these plans require customers to pay for service in advance – usually on a monthly basis, though it can be for longer periods of time as well. One of the plus sides is that prepaid plans do not require a credit check and often offer flexibility in terms of contract length and payment options. 

Of course, they’re not always going to be ideal. They’ve dwindled in popularity over the past decade, since there are better choices these days for folks who use their phones consistently.

Postpaid Plans

As you may have already guessed, these are essentially the opposite of the above option.  You see, these require customers to pay for service after they have used it. More often than not, this will be on a monthly basis. Postpaid plans often involve signing a contract with the carrier and may include additional fees or charges.

Overall, they’re probably the most popular option.  The contracts tend to last for a few years (two, in most cases), so they’re relatively flexible – it’s not as if you’re signed on for life.  Just be sure to read over the clauses to ensure you’re getting what you want.

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Family Plans

Not everyone who is getting a mobile phone plan will be doing so on their own.  That’s where family options come into play – these can be a great deal for families large and small alike, depending on the circumstances. Allow us to explain.

Family plans allow for multiple different devices to share a single plan. The real perk here is that it will usually be offered at a discounted rate when compared to individual plans.  Just keep in mind that these plans tend to include shared data, minutes, and texts, as well as the ability to add additional lines as needed.

While they can be quite useful, the sharing of data, minutes, and texts will mean that larger families may need to go for an unlimited, or free data, option to ensure that everyone has the access they need. You can go to website to get a better idea of how this works in practice.

Unlimited Plans

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This is an option that can be combined with a few of the others (family and postpaid). They offer users on the line to have unlimited access to services like data, texts, and voice minutes. That said, there are usually still stipulations on things like international calling and texting.

 Pay-As-You-Go Plans

For the final type that we’re highlighting in this section, we have pay-as-you-go plans. They allow customers to pay only for the minutes, texts, and data they use – and they come without a monthly contract or commitment. Overall, these plans are ideal for light users or those who want more control over their spending.

At the end of the day, some users will find it easier to blend a few of these plan options together. Most of the time, service providers will be willing to work with you to find a plan that suits you (and your family, when applicable), but isn’t overly expensive.

Choosing a Plan

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The trickiest part of this whole thing is narrowing down what will actually be the best fit. Something you’ll want to bear in mind right off of the bat is that there are a ton of service providers across Norway, so that will likely play a role in your eventually choice.  After all, before you decide on anything like that, you’ll need to research which companies offer service in your area.

Once you’ve gotten that out of the way, though, the fun can begin. There are a ton of factors that will play a role here, so make sure to follow along!

Analyze Your Usage

The first step you’ll want to take is to think about how much you use your mobile phone right now (or how much you plan to use it).  Additionally, there’s the matter of what you actually use it for. Both of these aspects will play a role here.

Voice minutes are an easy one to think about. How often do you call people? Do you spend a long time on the phone, or do you tend to keep things short and sweet? Many people don’t find the need for unlimited voice minutes these days, but they do tend to be bundled in with other free use plans, so that may in fact be a non-issue.

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What about texting? Admittedly, this does seem to be how most people communicate nowadays. However, if you’re chatting with friends or coworkers internationally, you may use a third-party messaging service that uses data (or Wi-Fi) rather than text minutes. This could easily influence the number of monthly texts you need access to.

Data is probably the most important factor in this category, as it’s how we browse the internet at all when we aren’t connected to Wi-Fi networks.  Now, some people work from home or simply don’t get out much, so they may not necessarily need a free data subscription. However, most folks do tend to travel about and want to access the internet on the go.

Without data, you can’t send emails, browse social media, or stream videos unless you’re connected to a Wi-Fi outlet. It’s not hard to see why this is useful – or why most people tend to go with a free data subscription (also known as an unlimited data plan).

The last factor to consider here is contingent on whether or not you are going for a family plan. If a lot of people are utilizing phones on the same line, then unlimited data, texts, and voice minutes can be invaluable. This way, everyone who’s included on the plan will be able to access these services as much as they need, without having an impact on anyone else’s service.

Cost, Contract Terms, and Other Services

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At the end of the day, it’s pretty hard to make a decision on this sort of thing without first analyzing the cost that you’re comfortable with.  Often, with family plans, everyone will chip in to help cover the bill each month – so, that could help save some cash in the long run, if that’s what you’re considering.

However, if you’re just purchasing one line, you may have further restrictions to consider in terms of budget. Thankfully, most phone companies offer several tiers, bundles, and packages to make their services as accessible as possible. Don’t be afraid to shop around and compare offers with the companies that service your area, either.

Contract terms are also something you’ll want to take into account. Essentially, you’ll want to decide if you prefer a prepaid plan with no long-term commitment or a postpaid plan with a contract.  Consider factors such as contract length, early termination fees, and any perks or benefits that come with a specific plan.  All of this will have an impact on final costs as well.

Finally, it can also be worth it to see what additional features or perks are included with a certain plan.  For instance, consider any additional features or perks that are important to you, such as international calling, mobile hotspot capabilities, or streaming services.  Some plans may include extras that can enhance your overall experience, though they come at an upcharge.

Selecting mobile phone services isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it to take the time to really browse the options available.  That way, you can be confident knowing you got a good deal.

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Implementing Performance Management Systems: From Evaluation to Excellence II

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This April, we commence a 5-part series on one of our highly recommended strategies for driving a culture of peak performance – The Evolution of Performance and Impact Measurement. Last week, we discussed 6 steps to implementing an excellent performance management system. Today, we bring the concluding 4 the effective implementation of performance management systems.

  1. Integrating Employee Feedback

Just as it is with corporate goal setting, collaboration for effective performance involves integrating a system that gives employees the opportunity to engage or provide feedback. This is critical because most of the operations in the workplace and more direct interactions with customers are made by employees on the lower rungs of the corporate ladder. Some of the famous tweaks in the production model of successful organizations were made by mid-level and low-level employees who see opportunities that top management might be tone-deaf or oblivious to. These insights are invaluable because they offer perspectives that can increase the form utility of what is being produced. This is because the business cycle is not complete until the goods or service is delivered to the customer and feedback received. This also enhances job satisfaction for the employees because they see themselves as part of the big picture.

  1. Instituting An Improvement System

This largely speaks to trainings but improvement is holistic. Training here applies to both managers and subordinates because it takes two to tango; the lack of training can sabotage productivity because one ignorant fellow with power can lead an organization down to ruins. Leaders and team members must constantly upskill because competence on one level can quickly become incompetence on a higher level. These could be owing to changes in within the organization or outside the organization. For example, after an organization secures new funding from investors or become quoted on a stock exchange, it has effectively become a different organization because its scope of operation has widened and the scale of production has to be increased owing to the new demands imposed on it by new stakeholders. Training interventions should be data-driven and vision-inspired; in response to the current needs of an organization and a preparation for its future. 

  1. Recalibrating The Performance Management System Itself

For organizations that are actively learning and growing; they know that it is never what they started with that they continue with – changes are a part of their success story. Tweaking a performance management system doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s not productive or yielding the desired results, it’s because little changes can have huge consequences. Sometimes, managers need to relax certain timelines because the strategic priority of an organization might have changes from speed to accuracy, thus the focus might be more on qualitative outcomes than just quantitative outcomes. This happens mostly when organizations are expanding and have gained significant notoriety, it means that they come under more scrutiny for compliance from regulatory authorities, investors and the business community.

For example, 1Tesla is not necessarily focused on mass producing electric cars so that the markets are flooded with them; owing to the highly technical nature of the car which includes self-driving features. This year alone, Tesla has recalled about 200,000 cars owing to a software error that could have prevented the rear-view cameras from displaying. This came barely two months after more than two million of its vehicles were also pulled from the market for autopilot issues. It had to double down on quality control so that it doesn’t lose its reputation as the world’s leading manufacturer of electric vehicles.

  1. Automating The Process

The performance management system is not a one-off tool; it’s a continuous process that never really ends – it’s an end-to-end play. If allowed to be operated manually, the performance management system would fail because it would be tiring and monotonous to start the same process all over again. Leaders should learn a thing or two on how the universe works – everything is designed in cycles, loops that are intentionally co-ordinated to such that there is really no difference between a start-point and a stop-point. 

In a performance management system where the five core components are specifying expectations, monitoring, meeting employees’ developmental needs, the use of appraisal and rewards – the last component (rewards) should seamlessly introduce the first component (specifying expectations).

Implementing performance management systems requires a lot of critical thinking and emotional intelligence because execution can be the difference between successful organizations and failing organizations. Productivity is so important that it cannot be happenstance; therefore managers should become aware of the moving parts that make increased productivity possible. 

1https://www.forbes.com/sites/caileygleeson/2024/01/26/tesla-recalls-nearly-200000-vehicles-over-rearview-camera-software-issue/

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About Dr. Abiola Salami

Dr. Abiola Salami is the Convener of Dr Abiola Salami International Leadership Bootcamp and The Peak PerformerTM. He is the Principal Performance Strategist at CHAMP – a full scale professional services firm trusted by high performing business leaders for providing Executive Coaching, Workforce Development & Advisory Services to improve performance. You can reach his team on hello@abiolachamp.com and connect with him @abiolachamp on all social media.

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Delta to serve Ghana with new Airbus A330-900neo

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Delta Air Lines will fly its state-of-the-art Airbus A330-900neo on nonstop service from Accra to New York-JFK effective 27 October 2024. The new aircraft will add approximately 30% more capacity between Ghana and the United States. 

Speaking to journalists at a media roundtable in Accra, Matteo Curcio, Delta’s Senior Vice President for Europe, Middle East, Africa, and India, said, “Delta has worked to deliver an enhanced travel experience in Ghana. We look forward to welcoming customers onboard our A330-900neo aircraft come October, offering exciting new products and services as they travel to and from the United States.”

Matteo used the opportunity to express his gratitude to Delta’s customers, the Ghana Civil Aviation Authority, and the government of Ghana for their continued partnership. 

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The brand-new A330-900neo aircraft will add nearly 1,000 more seats each week between Ghana and the U.S. It offers four distinctive experiences – Delta One Suites, Delta Premium Select, Delta Comfort+ and Main Cabin – and more cargo capacity to cater for growing demand. 

Customers can expect Delta’s best-in-class service and a uniquely premium onboard experience as they travel to and from the U.S. Each Delta One Suite features a sliding door for enhanced privacy, the luxury of a fully reclining seat, accompanied by plush bedding crafted from recycled materials. Delta One customers can also enjoy more beverage options and a seasonal chef-curated four-course meal. 

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Meanwhile, customers flying in Delta Premium Select will have more space to relax and stretch out, with a wider seat, deeper recline, an adjustable footrest and leg rest. Delta Comfort+ and Main Cabin passengers benefit from comfortable, memory-foam seats.

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All travelers will enjoy ambient lighting for a restful flight, Wi-Fi for purchase, and seat-back screens featuring 1,000+ hours of Delta Studio entertainment. Delta collaborates with diverse suppliers worldwide for in-flight products such as artisan-crafted amenity kits and beverages like Thrive Farmers Tea.

Delta continues to maintain its reputation for operational excellence. The airline has consistently been recognized for excellence in passenger experience, customer service, operational performance, and workplace culture. Recent achievements include winning Cirium’s Platinum Award for operational excellence for the third consecutive year, OAG’s most on-time airline, Air Transport World’s Airline of the Year 2024, and the Wall Street Journal’s top U.S. airline.  

 

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A Powerful and Emotional Experience – “In the Pants of a Woman” – By Beatrice Shine Ayroe

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On Sunday night, I had the privilege of attending the musical play “In the Pants of a Woman,” by Mr. Kobina Ansah. A thought-provoking and poignant performance that tackled the sensitive and critical issue of rape. The play was a masterful blend of music, storytelling, and advocacy, leaving me moved, inspired, and motivated to take action.
The talented performers, with their powerful vocals and captivating stage presence, brought the stories of survivors to life through song and spoken word.
The music was hauntingly beautiful and was all written by Kobina, with a range of genres and styles that perfectly complemented the emotional intensity of the lyrics.
What struck me most was the bravery and resilience of the survivors who shared their stories, their voices echoing through the National Theatre as they reclaimed their power and dignity.
The play was a testament to the strength and solidarity of those who have faced unimaginable trauma, and a reminder that we must continue to listen, support, and amplify their voices.
The play also highlighted the importance of consent, accountability, and community engagement in preventing sexual violence.
The call to action was clear: we must work together to create a society where everyone can live without fear of violence and oppression.
Overall, “In the Pants of a Woman” was a play that will stay with me for a long time, a powerful reminder of the impact of art and music in sparking conversations, challenging norms, and driving change. I applaud the writer, organizers, performers, and survivors who made this event possible, and I look forward to seeing the ripple effects of this important work.
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Short films and La Cinef Jury and selections of the 77th Festival de Cannes

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Flanked by Marie-Castille Mention-Schaar, Paolo Moretti, Claudine Nougaret and Vladimir Perišić, the Belgian actress Lubna Azabal will award the Short Film Palme d’or and the 3 La Cinef prizes, the Festival de Cannes’ selection dedicated to student films.

The Jury will discover the 11 films in the Short Film Competition and the 18 films in La Cinef selection unveiled today.

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Atarah Praise: Prophet Joseph Atarah set to rock Adenta on May 19

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Ghana’s singing Prophet, Joseph Atarah is set to rock the people of Adenta on May 19 with Atarah Praise. (more…)

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