Lifestyle and relationship blogger, Kwadjo Panyin (musingsofanafricanbachelor), gets into in conversation with the ladies on the ‘He Is Just A Friend’, situation. Check it out: This piece is for the ladies.
Fellas, you are welcome to stick around but you have to sit your hiney in the corner and hush up. I need you to stay quiet while I spew some words of wisdom to the ladies.
Fear not, I am not planning to give away our bro secrets. Okay, I lied, I will give the ladies a smidgen but not much. I have a few things to tell them and trust me, this is for your own good.
Okay, ladies, it’s just you and me now. So check this out, I am mesmerized by you. I want to gobble you in places some fellas won’t. I want to graze you in places some brothers won’t. Your satisfaction is my top priority and I have the tactical expertise to execute. (Okay, that was corny as heck!)
Anyway, I pulled you aside because there is something I want to tell you. I really, really want to see you naked. Hold up! Wait! Don’t be mad, I am just kidding! Please don’t leave. Okay, Kwadjo, snap out of it and get the freakiness out of your system.Okay, let me get serious and tell you an open secret about men. Do me a favor and check the instant messages on your social media. Do you see all those fellas chatting with you? Fellas like me who say hello every so often just to see how you doing and check on you. Almost all of them want to see you naked but you already know that, don’t you? Alright, let’s forget about those fellas in your IM. They are toothless and weak because you have them at arm’s length. Let’s take a look at the fellas in your WhatsApp and those texting you on your digits. Fellas like me who have managed to break free from your IM jail and have your phone number. Remember those fellas? Those of us who stuck around after we discovered that you are dating someone but somehow, you wanted to keep us close as “just” friends. Those of us who die a little on the inside everything we see a picture of you and your man or when we run into you and him together. Remember those fellas? Those of us who hit on you when we first met only for you to decide that we are better off as “just” friends. Those of us wondering hopelessly how you ended up dating a “loser” when you can be with us. Those of us waiting around for your man to screw up. Remember those fellas? Those of us who stuck around to listen for hours as you complained about how bad your man treats you. Those of us who listen to your sob stories and secretly hate the fact that you are still boinking your man. Remember those fellas? Those of us who rarely press you about how we feel about you because we are “just” friends. Those of us who keep denying our true intentions to see you naked. Those of us who are gurus at keeping things superficial and normal because we are “just” friends after all.
It is relatively seamless for most of us to switch quickly from wanting to see you naked to becoming your friend. It’s not a problem at all. Easy peasy!
With time, you may forget the fact that some of us wanted to see you naked. With time, you may forget the fact that some of us wanted a real relationship with you.
Don’t worry, we will eventually forget the reasons why we wanted you in the first place. After all, how difficult is it to forget how amazing, accomplished or hot you are? Just give us some time and we will become great friends! I think that is enough sarcasm for one day.
Ladies, permit me to speak to the fellas who stuck around just for a quick second. Fellas, some of you reading this may feel unfairly judged by what I am about to say.Here is the deal; we fellas are the reason why some men and women cannot be “just” friends. Yeah, I said it. If you are mad then get mad but deep down, you know it’s true.Ladies, back to you. Is it possible for men and women to be “just” friends? Absolutely! We all have friends of the opposite sex, don’t we? However, we the fellas hold the key to whether the friendship will work or not and here is why.
A man can only be true friends with a woman if he does not want to see her naked.If a guy and a girl appear to be best friends, one of them may secretly want to see the other naked. My money is on the guy. Let me begin by stating the obvious. When we first approached you on social media or at the party, we did not ask for the recipe for Ghanaian Jollof, did we? Nope, we wanted to be with you from a romantic standpoint. (Please allow a quick plug in here; Ghanaian Jollof is simply delish and the best ever!!) We are “just” friends now and its all good but here is the problem. You are still the same amazing, accomplished and hot chick we wanted when we first met. Don’t get me wrong, we fellas have self-control; at least most of us do. However, do not forget the key point I mentioned earlier; true friendship only works if the fella is totally past his desire to see you naked or if he has given up his wish to start a romantic relationship with you. Being around someone you find sexually attractive is one of the worst ways to avoid having sex with that person. You can test this theory if you want to. Ask the same guy who initially expressed a romantic interest in you what he will do should he find you in his bed in your birthday suit. Actually, don’t ask him, just creep into his bed full monty and watch what happens next.
I’ve heard some fellas talk about being “friend zoned” in such situations. Permit me to air some grievances I personally have with the notion of “friend zones.” The term “friend zone” has become so entrenched on the dating scene that it’s almost never questioned.The Friend zone isn’t real and it’s a myth made up by some fellas who got rejected because they were just not compatible or good enough.The idea that a nice guy is owed sex or a romantic relationship by a female friend is ridiculous. Most women know if they want you romantically or sexually from the get-go. There are no gray areas here. When fellas use the term “friend zone,” they are indubitably attempting to shame a woman for hurting their feelings. I understand that rejection sucks and it hurts. However, women are in control of who they want to be with and they have every right to say no if they don’t like you.
Women don’t owe us shit!In reality, it’s not impossible to pull off a friendship with a member of the opposite sex but it’s definitely not as easy as swallowing some fufu. Attraction and sex always get in the way. I am not discouraging men and women from being friends. On the contrary, I am presenting these open secrets to encourage us to closely examine our friendships with the opposite sex. Hopefully, some poor soul will be saved from months or years of pointless yearning if they simply refuse to accept those dreaded words; ‘Let’s be “just” friends’ Ladies, if you want to continue this conversation or if you want to delve deeper into this fun topic, I do offer private one-on-one tutorials. You know where to find me. My only request is that we become friends first. By Kwadjo Panyin
Photo Credits; Models: Yaa Sarponmaa, Selassie & Christabel
Photographer: Ark Hinson]]>
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Richard Strauss-Ashiaby, the Best-Graduating Student from UniMAC-IJ, Gets the Hollard Prize
Hollard Ghana, the country’s favourite insurer, has honoured Richard Della Strauss-Ashiaby, the valedictorian from the University of Media, Arts and Communication-IJ (UniMAC-IJ), with the Hollard Prize during the 2nd Congregation held in Accra.
To commemorate this remarkable achievement, Roswitha Adjoa Amoako, Head of Group Business at Hollard Life, presented Richard with the Hollard Prize, including a laptop, a citation, and a cash prize during the ceremony.
Speaking after the event, Cynthia Ofori-Dwumfuo, Group Head of Marketing and Corporate Affairs, commended Richard on his notable feat.
“We are thrilled to join in celebrating Richard Della Strauss-Ashiaby on his well-deserved award as the overall best-graduating student from the University of Media, Arts and Communications-IJ. At Hollard, we believe in the power of education to transform lives and shape the future. By supporting talented individuals like Richard, we are investing in the next generation of leaders who will drive positive change in our society, thus enabling better futures”, she stated.
Commenting on the award, the recipient, Richard, expressed his deep gratitude, saying, “I am truly humbled about this award, not only for the just-ended ceremony but also for the long-term partnership between Hollard and UNIMAC-IJ. I hope this award will inspire students to strive for excellence and positively impact their fields. Thank you, Hollard Ghana, for this incredible opportunity”.
Since its inception in 2022, the Hollard X Academia program has significantly improved the lives of numerous students and fostered a culture of excellence and innovation. This comprehensive initiative, which includes the Hollard Prize, Scholar Programme, Streetwise Finance engagement sessions, and Corporate Experience, is a testament to our commitment to investing in the next generation of leaders.
Anatasia Nana Aba Acquah, Gwendy Tetteh, Joshua Seidu Adams, and Sandra Kumah are some of the past beneficiaries of the Hollard Prize since its inception.
The country’s favourite insurance group is Hollard Ghana, with subsidiaries Hollard Insurance and Hollard Life Assurance. The group combines its deep local knowledge of the market, having previously operated in Ghana for 25 years as Metropolitan Insurance, with the world-class expertise of an international insurance brand in 18 countries worldwide. With feet firmly planted on Ghanaian soil but headquartered in South Africa, Hollard delivers innovative insurance solutions customised to the unique risks Ghanaians face. Hollard offers various life and general insurance products, including funeral, personal accident, motor, business, travel, home, and more, and can be reached via 0307000599. Beyond various nationwide office branches and Hollard 2U franchise shops, Ghanaians can find Hollard at Shell Fuel Station Welcome Shops, Melcom stores and online at www.hollard.com.gh, www.melcom.com/hollard-insurance and www.jumia.com.gh for all their insurance needs.
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Tech Talent Wars: Strategies to Retain Top Employees in a Hybrid World
As technology companies embrace this approach, they’re also facing intense challenges in retaining skilled employees. The rise of remote work has broadened the competitive landscape, and companies must adapt their retention strategies to secure the best talent. This article explores how tech companies can retain top employees in a hybrid world, focusing on the challenges to hire Solana developers and the role of the best recruitment agencies in Perth.
The Hybrid Work Environment and Tech Talent Retention Challenges
A hybrid work model offers flexibility, but it also introduces new challenges:
- Remote Burnout: Blurring lines between work and home can lead to overwork, fatigue, and eventual burnout, making employees feel disconnected.
- Lack of Engagement: Reduced face-to-face interaction can cause disengagement, diminishing collaboration and morale.
- Increased Competition: Hybrid work allows companies worldwide to recruit across borders, intensifying competition for specialized talent.
- Strategies to Retain Top Tech Employees in a Hybrid World
To overcome these challenges, businesses can implement specific strategies to retain their tech workforce:
- Flexible Work Policies: Allow employees to choose when and where they work best, providing them with the autonomy they value.
- Career Growth Opportunities: Establish clear career paths and offer training programs that align with individual goals, helping employees visualize their future with the company.
- Recognition and Rewards: Create recognition programs to celebrate achievements and offer tangible rewards for exceptional performance, whether through bonuses or additional leave.
- Fostering Connection: Organize virtual team-building activities and maintain regular check-ins to nurture a sense of connection despite the physical distance.
- Inclusive Culture: Embrace diversity and implement policies that prioritize employee well-being to foster a supportive environment.
Hiring Solana Developers: A Niche Challenge
Blockchain technology, particularly the Solana platform, is experiencing rapid growth, making the search to hire Solana developers competitive. Retaining these specialists requires a thoughtful approach:
- Training and Upskilling Opportunities: Offer opportunities for continuous learning and skill enhancement to keep Solana developers at the forefront of their field.
- Innovative Projects: Provide challenging and creative projects that push developers’ boundaries and satisfy their desire for meaningful work.
- Community and Collaboration: Encourage collaboration and create opportunities to share knowledge and insights within a supportive developer community.
Best Recruitment Agencies in Perth and Their Role in Retaining Talent
Perth has become a competitive tech market, and the best recruitment agencies in Perth are pivotal in helping businesses find and keep top talent:
- Deep Market Knowledge: They provide insights into local market trends, emerging skills, and salary expectations.
- Networking and Candidate Relationships: Agencies build strong relationships with candidates to understand their goals and find roles aligned with their career aspirations.
- Consulting Services: They guide companies on best practices for onboarding, engagement, and retention, offering strategies tailored to each company’s specific needs.
- Final Tips and Recommendations for Retaining Top Tech Talent
To ensure businesses retain their tech talent in a hybrid work world:
- Prioritize Communication: Keep communication lines open between leadership and employees, ensuring clarity about goals and expectations.
- Continuous Feedback: Conduct regular surveys to gather employee feedback and address concerns promptly.
- Employer Branding: Promote a strong employer brand that emphasizes company values, growth opportunities, and a supportive culture.
Conclusion
In today’s competitive hybrid work environment, retaining top tech talent is critical. This requires businesses to tailor their retention strategies to address remote work challenges and specialized roles like Solana developers. Companies can rely on local recruitment agencies, such as the best recruitment agencies in Perth, to find and retain the talent needed to succeed. Proactive communication, career growth, and a supportive culture will help businesses adapt and win the tech talent wars.
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Don’t Take Any Risk – Protect Your Car During Break-ins!
With the crime rate rising daily, you must exercise caution and learn how to protect your car from burglars. It has been reported that more than 810,000 vehicles were stolen in 2023, which is a high number.
So, if you do not want to face a similar situation or become a victim of car theft, follow the simple steps we discuss.
1. Keep the doors and windows of the car locked
This is one of the simplest yet effective tricks to protect a car from theft—you must always lock the door and windows, even when you are not using the vehicle. Open windows attract thieves, who can easily access the car. A locksmith Portland Oregon, can customize locks for car windows.
2. Have access to the keys
Always be careful when you have a car. Never leave the keys lying around, and always be cautious to avoid losing them. Always keep spare keys so you are kept in the car when you lose one. Be mindful of not storing the car key inside or outside the vehicle, as it makes it easier for thieves to steal it.
3. Choose a secure car parking
You must be careful when choosing secured car parking. Do more than park it anywhere. It can be dangerous. To ensure complete safety, park the car where it does not have public access, and you can invest in building your garage or renting a garage. When parking outside, you must select a well-lit space, never choose a remote area, and choose a spot with CCTV camera access or any other security device.
4. Never keep valuables inside the car
If you keep valuables in the car, thieves can be tempted to break into or steal them. Valuables, including your purse, any expensive buy, or luggage, are easily visible in the vehicles. Even grocery bags can be enough to attract burglars, as they signal that there are more items inside the car. You can use a cargo cover based on your vehicle’s model.
5. Activate the car alarm
Most advanced cars have a built-in alarm system that triggers when anybody tries to open the car door. You must activate this alarm whenever you leave the car in the parking lot or garage. With just one intruding attempt to open the car, the alarm activates with a loud noise, which deters the thief. However, if your vehicle lacks one such alarm, you can buy a car alarm from the market and install it to keep it safe. These alarms are available in multiple options, allowing you to choose from various models and prices.
Summing it up
If you live in a safe location, then simple steps are enough; however, to maintain extra protection, install a few devices to prevent thieves, such as a vehicle immobilizer and steering wheel lock to discourage thieves. You can get help from a professional locksmith Gresham Oregon, to protect your car without any inconvenience. Find out who the leading professionals are and keep their contact details on your phone.
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The Psychological Impact of Colors and Graphics on Online Gambling Behavior
If you are familiar with casinos, you already know how colorful they are. The physical ones are filled with bright buttons, colorful chips, and neon lights. Their online counterparts are no exceptions.
Online gaming and casino apps and sites have kept up with the trend, and you can see that in any such platform. Like just try the Betway Zambia login, and you will see what I am talking about. Today, we will take a vibrant ride learning how the colors and graphics can impact the games and gaming behaviors.
- How Colors and Graphics Impact Psychotically Impact the Online Gambling Behaviors of the Users
The web design behind online casinos depends on various factors that can psychologically affect gamers. This includes colors, sounds effects and music, bonuses and rewards, and even user interface.
Now, let’s look at the role of colors and how various shades can impact the user’s psychology.
1.1) The Classic Red and Green
The bright reds and greens are undoubtedly the first shades that come to your mind when you hear the word ‘casino.’ Primarily associated with cards, pools, and roulettes, these hues give players the casino vibes.
While red is linked with risk-taking, the greens are related to money and winnings. Both attract the players and make them excited for the games.
1.2) Happy Yellow and Orange
The happy shade of yellow boosts your dopamine, while orange demands attention. Combining them reminds us of the buzzing environment of casinos and the excitement of playing the games and placing bets. This makes the players more eager and excited to play.
1.3) Black and Gold for the Royalties
The classy black and shiny gold background symbolizes special features and quality. These are particularly hit among the rich and loyal VIP customers and reward them with luxury gifts and rewards.
1.4) A Touch of Blue for Trust
Finally, safe and trusted online casinos try to encourage faith and trust in users by using calm shades of blue.
Especially for the navigational keys, the cool hues make you feel that each click is safe. It promotes the most crucial element of building successful user relations – trust.
- The Role of Graphics
Along with the rainbow of shades, visual graphics also enhance the gaming experience to a vast extent. These can be done with:
- Signs, symbols, and icons
- Animations
- Dynamic visuals
The flashing icons, spinning reels, and entertaining animations make games enjoyable.
However, you must remember that the best application of colors and graphics is with moderation and subtlety. The key is to find the balance. The graphics should excite the gamers but never overwhelm them. So, it has to be done correctly and with much care. That way, the gaming experience can become much more than slots, spins, and wins – it transforms into a real adventure!
The design behind online casinos and other gaming sites is an intricate combination of complex psychology, advancing tech, and unique creativity.
With the continuous evolution of technology and ingenious creative trends, it is equally important to focus on the psychology of gaming and how graphics can affect it. Along with cool sound effects, easy navigation, and attractive rewards, the proper application of colors and graphics can positively impact the gaming behaviors of the users.
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Met Gala 2024: See fashion highlights and best looks
The Met Gala’s red carpet never fails to deliver unforgettable moments in celebrity fashion, and this year’s event in New York City, themed “Sleeping Beauties: Reawakening Fashion,” was no exception. (more…)
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Social Trends: Elite Prom Night: Ugandan High Schoolers Arrive in Choppers & Supercars
Entebbe, Uganda – Elite High School’s prom night showcased opulence as students arrived in helicopters, Tesla cars, Mercedes-Benz, and Lamborghini, sparking social media buzz and discussions on the source of such wealth in a developing country.
Elite High School typically attracts attention from a wide range of people due to their extravagant Prom parties. The 2024 Prom party followed suit and garnered attention from government officials. On May 4th, a Saturday, students were eager to attend their Prom, which occurs before candidates start their final exams.
Beautiful scenes from Elite High School prom in Entebbe, Uganda
pic.twitter.com/qdZLuOtObC— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) May 6, 2024
Most students arrived dressed in their best attire, while some even hired luxurious cars. One student arrived in a helicopter with his date. After getting out of the helicopter, they were escorted into a luxurious car that transported them to the Prom venue.
Sky view of Elite High School Entebbe, Uganda.🔥🤯🙆🏾♂️ #elitehighschoolentebbe #elitehighschoolentebbeprom #prom pic.twitter.com/qGXktXRPCw
— #MrInfluencerUg 🇺🇬 🇳🇬 🇬🇭 (@MrInfluencerUg1) May 6, 2024
According to an interview with our presenters, Pam Malaika, and MC Ollo, sources revealed that the helicopter was hired from Bar Aviation at $1200 (approximately Ugandan Shillings 4.5 million), while the car, a V8 2022 Model, was hired for 6 hours at 3 million Ugandan Shillings.
Prom scenes from Elite High School Entebbe, Uganda.🔥🤯🙆🏾♂️ PART 2#elitehighschoolentebbe #elitehighschoolentebbeprom #prom pic.twitter.com/bAVdtgA6bC
— #MrInfluencerUg 🇺🇬 🇳🇬 🇬🇭 (@MrInfluencerUg1) May 6, 2024
Minister John Muyingo, however, expressed dissatisfaction with the Prom trends, stating, “Are these things happening in Uganda? Where are we going? Money is a scarce resource; it shouldn’t be given out and spent like that.
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