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Marriage is a lifelong devotion between one man and one woman for their common joy, the good of the community, and the procreation of children. Don’t underrate the significance of relationship, pleasure, and sympathy in everyone’s life. Intimacy is a mind and bodily closeness that allows each of you to let your boundaries down, something you may not be able to do with another living soul. It can easily be lost unless informed steps are taken to conserve it. 

 

Long-lasting Marriage 

 

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A married couple who share devotion for life and each other warm things up in a good way, which in turn stimulate feelings of enjoyment, faith, and love all good things for maintaining a marriage going strong. Keep the relationship alive in your union. Compassion is another important manner that all husbands and wife’s must-have. This also implies that you don’t hang onto the past events and past pain. Be ready to let go and to move onward with your lives. Acknowledge your dissimilarities and don’t try to change your partner. According to brad browning, Being a couple means you are a team that means dealing with problems and hardship together not even your friends and parents wedge between you. Yes, they can advise but it is you and your partner who should be the ones to solve the problems. Rely on each other for remedies instead and live independently. Both must honor your dedication to each other through good times and bad. Be a friend with each other and take time to get away together sometimes to laugh and do something that both of you enjoy. There are times one needs space and privacy and both should respect that and make sure you give it to each other. 

 

There is no such thing as a perfect marriage. There are and will have occasional fights and misunderstandings but always learn to give open communication and learn how to have a settlement solution. Don’t aim to harm, and above all, don’t fight to gain a victory. Your self-worth is defined by you. You don’t have to rely on someone telling you who you are. All marriages take a road on the uneven patches and walk through the patterns of mundanity; periods of poor communication, indifference, and anxiety. Make God be the core of your married life rather than each of you having yourselves in the middle of your thinking.

 

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A happy marriage doesn’t mean everything is happy, and no feuds.  A joyful marriage means a connection where both partners are dedicated to each other, to being nicer people themselves, and helping each other become the best versions of themselves. It also means having common appreciation, healthy communication, practical goals, and sincerity. You have to hear your partner’s problems, recommendations, and guidance, and accept that you’re not always correct. Learn how to adapt to the kind of person your partner is and try not to change them, just focus on their positive traits and live with them for a better life not to mention change can be very tough. Avoid condemning, tormenting, and finding shortcomings in your partner. Your spouse might lack much, but criticism won’t help. Expecting perfection will bring bitterness to you and your spouse. Keep your love for each other burning in the fire to last a lifetime of your married life. Do not leave your spouse for granted, always bring something for your partner to let her know you are always thinking of her. Even simple messages will do while you’re at work and when you come home to have a bouquet for your wife. Make sure you spend some quality time with your partner each day and be willing to convey yourself more promptly. Constantly work towards togetherness and that means always thinking of what makes your spouse pleased.

 

Differences between the I Dos’ before and the Present

 

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Once it was easy. You got married, had kids of your own, found a better job, and stayed married whether you could stand each other or not. The concept of “a happy marriage” was no more applicable than the idea of a pretty house or a career. That has changed over time as marriage has become more self-sufficient and the couple is more or less equally dependent on each other. At present both partners are working for the family, contributing to a lesser time spent on the children and for each other as husband and wife. Unlike before, the wife is left in the house to take care of the children, cook, and prepare food for the family, and do household chores. Life was modest before then unlike today. Time is fast and everyone else is busy with their stuff. Parents are always on the run for work and children are left behind with their caregivers. But this does not mean that your marriage can not work, it is still on to both of you to make it last forever. A divorce is never an option but unconditional love is the one to choose even if it calls for giving up something, we are determined to always do that for each other.

 

Final Thoughts

 

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Investing in your relationship to last a lifetime is hard and never easy. It takes a lot of undertaking and patience to succeed. There is no formula or recipe for a perfect married life. It takes two to make it happen to be able to overcome trials together, you need to work united and not against each other. There are no happy marriages. You and your spouse make your marriage a happy one by patiently and understandingly working at ironing out arguments and pumping in more smiles, shared pleasures, and happiness. A happy marriage expects more sustenance than your automobile. The mystery of a healthy marriage lies not in having the perfect partner, but in being the good partner. The duty of in-laws is not to intervene with your son’s or daughter’s union unless your advice is solicited by both partners.     

 

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