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Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of love

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Marriage is a lifelong devotion between one man and one woman for their common joy, the good of the community, and the procreation of children. Don’t underrate the significance of relationship, pleasure, and sympathy in everyone’s life. Intimacy is a mind and bodily closeness that allows each of you to let your boundaries down, something you may not be able to do with another living soul. It can easily be lost unless informed steps are taken to conserve it. 

 

Long-lasting Marriage 

 

A married couple who share devotion for life and each other warm things up in a good way, which in turn stimulate feelings of enjoyment, faith, and love all good things for maintaining a marriage going strong. Keep the relationship alive in your union. Compassion is another important manner that all husbands and wife’s must-have. This also implies that you don’t hang onto the past events and past pain. Be ready to let go and to move onward with your lives. Acknowledge your dissimilarities and don’t try to change your partner. According to brad browning, Being a couple means you are a team that means dealing with problems and hardship together not even your friends and parents wedge between you. Yes, they can advise but it is you and your partner who should be the ones to solve the problems. Rely on each other for remedies instead and live independently. Both must honor your dedication to each other through good times and bad. Be a friend with each other and take time to get away together sometimes to laugh and do something that both of you enjoy. There are times one needs space and privacy and both should respect that and make sure you give it to each other. 

 

There is no such thing as a perfect marriage. There are and will have occasional fights and misunderstandings but always learn to give open communication and learn how to have a settlement solution. Don’t aim to harm, and above all, don’t fight to gain a victory. Your self-worth is defined by you. You don’t have to rely on someone telling you who you are. All marriages take a road on the uneven patches and walk through the patterns of mundanity; periods of poor communication, indifference, and anxiety. Make God be the core of your married life rather than each of you having yourselves in the middle of your thinking.

 

A happy marriage doesn’t mean everything is happy, and no feuds.  A joyful marriage means a connection where both partners are dedicated to each other, to being nicer people themselves, and helping each other become the best versions of themselves. It also means having common appreciation, healthy communication, practical goals, and sincerity. You have to hear your partner’s problems, recommendations, and guidance, and accept that you’re not always correct. Learn how to adapt to the kind of person your partner is and try not to change them, just focus on their positive traits and live with them for a better life not to mention change can be very tough. Avoid condemning, tormenting, and finding shortcomings in your partner. Your spouse might lack much, but criticism won’t help. Expecting perfection will bring bitterness to you and your spouse. Keep your love for each other burning in the fire to last a lifetime of your married life. Do not leave your spouse for granted, always bring something for your partner to let her know you are always thinking of her. Even simple messages will do while you’re at work and when you come home to have a bouquet for your wife. Make sure you spend some quality time with your partner each day and be willing to convey yourself more promptly. Constantly work towards togetherness and that means always thinking of what makes your spouse pleased.

 

Differences between the I Dos’ before and the Present

 

Once it was easy. You got married, had kids of your own, found a better job, and stayed married whether you could stand each other or not. The concept of “a happy marriage” was no more applicable than the idea of a pretty house or a career. That has changed over time as marriage has become more self-sufficient and the couple is more or less equally dependent on each other. At present both partners are working for the family, contributing to a lesser time spent on the children and for each other as husband and wife. Unlike before, the wife is left in the house to take care of the children, cook, and prepare food for the family, and do household chores. Life was modest before then unlike today. Time is fast and everyone else is busy with their stuff. Parents are always on the run for work and children are left behind with their caregivers. But this does not mean that your marriage can not work, it is still on to both of you to make it last forever. A divorce is never an option but unconditional love is the one to choose even if it calls for giving up something, we are determined to always do that for each other.

 

Final Thoughts

 

Investing in your relationship to last a lifetime is hard and never easy. It takes a lot of undertaking and patience to succeed. There is no formula or recipe for a perfect married life. It takes two to make it happen to be able to overcome trials together, you need to work united and not against each other. There are no happy marriages. You and your spouse make your marriage a happy one by patiently and understandingly working at ironing out arguments and pumping in more smiles, shared pleasures, and happiness. A happy marriage expects more sustenance than your automobile. The mystery of a healthy marriage lies not in having the perfect partner, but in being the good partner. The duty of in-laws is not to intervene with your son’s or daughter’s union unless your advice is solicited by both partners.     

 

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Betty de Mould @ 70

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Leading up to the 2008 elections, the NDC political party had gained “notoriety” from people especially the opposition parties as being abrasive and aggressive.

I’m sure the party did an introspection analysis and decided to give a fresh face to the party and also introduced some fresh faces as spokespersons.

The likes of Dr. Alex Segbefia, Hon. Hanna Tetteh, Mrs. Betty Mould-Iddrisu amongst others.

I’m till this day spellbound anytime Mrs. Iddrisu speaks. Her great command of the queens language. I mean she is from British Accra (James town) what do you expect?

Her grace, charm and class always comes through. Such an @awula” her French tips finger nails 💅 was one to notice.

When NDC annexed power in 2009, she served the country in various capacities. Last I heard of her politically was when she contested for NDC Party Chairmanship.

Last week March 22nd 2023 marked her platinum jubilee as she turned the big 70 a septuagenarian par excellence.

The day was marked with a brunch at her residence and hosted friends and family to a high brow dinner at the plush Labadi Beach Hotel on Saturday the 25th 2023.

Here to share some pictures of what went down to mark the day.

I wish her the best on this 70th milestone. I say three hearty cheers 🥂

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An exceptional Lawyer with a rich experience in the legal field.
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With Professor Jane Naana Opoku Agyemang.
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With husband Alhaji Iddrisu
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Dazzling
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Go Betty
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The face beat is on point 💄👌🏾
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The dinner menu… It screams bougie!
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Joyce Bawa Mogtari, leading member of the NDC
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Former Attorney General, Hon. Marietta Brew
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Emefae Hardcastle, member of NDC legal team.
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The chief organizer herself 🙌🏾 Obuobia
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Edudzi Tamakloe and Obuobia, boogie down!
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Victoria Hammah and JB

Written by Nana Kwesi Acquaye

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Pura Collaborates With The Metropolitan Museum Of Art On A New Collection Of Fragrances

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Today, smart fragrance company Pura announces their collaboration with The Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York to introduce a collection of six fragrances. The scents were developed to enable customers to experience art across time and cultures through fragrances inspired by extraordinary pieces at The Met.
The Pura smart fragrance diffuser plugs into any wall outlet and uses wifi and Bluetooth technology to connect to an accompanying app that allows customers to adjust fragrance intensity, set schedules and timers, switch between scents, and more with fragrances that are clean and safe. Founders Richie Stapler and Bruno Lima designed Pura to be a sleek enhancement to any room while capturing the power of fragrance to make life better and more memorable.
When creating the scents, Pura’s Chief Fragrance Experience Officer Mara Dumski said, “We were so excited to work with The Met to develop scents connecting back to their inspiring collection of art. Aiming to evoke moods and tell a story, our collaboration offers an entirely new way to experience The Met collection of 5,000 years of art while also creating a sense of home and personality through art-inspired fragrance.”
“As fans of Pura, we are excited to launch this unique home fragrance experience which adds a new dimension to art appreciation,” said Josh Romm, Head of Global Licensing and Partnerships at The Met. “Art has the power to create connections and transport people across time and place, and this program provides a new and exciting opportunity for fans of The Met to experience art, history, and cultures of the world from the comfort of home.”
All compatible with the signature Pura smart fragrance diffuser, the fragrances included in this collection are:
  • Blue Water Lotus: This refreshing, floral fragrance represents the beauty of lotus flowers depicted in carvings on the Temple of Dendur. Notes of blue water lily, blooming jasmine, and grounding undertones of frankincense and myrrh beautifully round out this efflorescent scent.
  • Egyptian Sandalwood: This musky, woody fragrance recalls the Egyptian landscape and pays tribute to the significance of art and architecture in Egyptian rituals and culture. Cardamom and Ancient Egyptian incense blend with papery papyrus, rock rose, sandalwood, and cedarwood, creating a warm and inviting scent.
  • Bamboo Forest: The structure and order of the Astor Court contrasts beautifully with the flora found within. Fresh notes of bamboo blend with orchid and plum blossom. Cooling Chinese eucalyptus soothes the senses as sandalwood and patchouli ground in this calming scent.
  • Spiced Woods: This woody fragrance draws inspiration from a serene mountain retreat, highlighting the juxtaposition of a man-made structure nestled in an organic location. Himalayan azaleas blend with Indonesian balsam, cypress, and sandalwood, creating a warming, spiced scent.
  • Terracotta Rose: This earthy yet refreshing fragrance represents the detailed work of Greek artisans with salt and mineral notes blending seamlessly with earthen terracotta. Geranium and muguet bring floralcy and brightness as herbal undernotes of rock rose and cypress give beauty and balance to this tranquil scent.
  • Perfume Immortelle: This uplifting fragrance represents Roman artisans’ dedication to detail, movement, and humanity. The sweet immortelle flower, which never fades nor wilts, represents the enduring quality of the magnificent Roman marble statues. Bergamot and olive flower lend a bright freshness, blending with a base of cypress and myrrh.
Each fragrance retails individually for $21.99, and sets retail for $89. The collection will be sold on Pura.com, part of the Impact affiliate network, and at The Met Store and online at store.metmuseum.org.
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Kati G Responds to Decriminalization of Attempted Suicide In Ghana

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Kati G spearheads Suicide Awareness Ghana

Finally suicide can be acknowledged as a mental health issue and not a criminal act that would land you in jail or persuade an individual to commit the act of suicide to avoid jail time .

It was obvious why real cases of attempted suicide haven’t been recorded properly or why most people have feared to come out and declare their own personal mental health struggles. Being jailed for a mental health struggle is not a solution.

Like others I celebrate and commend parliament for taking the right steps and actions to decriminalize suicide and focus on providing help as an alternative to reduce suicide and educate the public on the subject.
As a Mental Health Advocate I will make it my personal initiative to educate the public on suicide awareness to prevent the rise.

Kati G.
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Let’s Talk About It: Suicide Awareness Ghana

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The 7th Ibero American Film Festival Held In Accra

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This year’s edition of the Ibero American film festival was held from Wednesday 22nd March to Wednesday 29th March 2023 at the Pacific Alliance, located at Airport Residential Area in Accra.

The festival was dedicated to the memory of the late Mexican Ambassador accredited to Ghana, Gambia, Liberia, and Sierra Leone, H. E Enrique Escorza, who passed on in November 2022.

Being the seventh edition, the Ibero American film festival screened a variety of projects including features, short films and documentary films by Spanish, Portuguese and Latin American filmmakers.1749300f 1ecd 433c a2f7 cb0d1739bf31

The film festival held each night from 6PM has the aim of promoting Ibero American stories, culture and messages of social impact. In addition, it showcases acclaimed films by directors from Brazil, Spain, Columbia, Cuba, Peru and Mexico with a diverse range of Latin American context and perspectives.

This year, the festival opened with the Columbian movie, Jerico; the infinite flight of days. Jerico is a film, which reflects a colourful, poetic and lush journey in a beautiful Colombian village, Jericó through the eyes of eight women of all ages and social conditions.

Other films including Achero Mañas’ directed Spanish drama film, El Bola, Cuban drama, Habana station, Peruvian movie, Viaje a Tombuctu Pixinguinha, and Brazilian project, Pixinguinha, were also screened.

Spanish Ambassador to Ghana, H.E Javier Gutierrez, Peruvian Ambassador to Ghana, H.E Abel Antonio Cardenas Tuppia and the Deputy Head of Mission of the Embassy of Mexico in Ghana, Arturo Agustín Salazar González, spoke about the importance of the Ibero American film festival.

The 7th Ibero American film festival closed on Wednesday, 29th March 2023 with the Mexican movie La Buenas Hiebas

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Listen to Nana Asamoah cover the classic Cyndi Lauper song ‘True Colors’

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Nana Asamoah is excited to announce the release of his new cover song True Colors, available now on YouTube. (more…)

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AirtelTigo empowers students of Presbyterian Senior High and Technical School to Maximize educational potential

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AirtelTigo Presents GHS 15000 to SRC of PSHTS

As part of its activities for the month of March in honor of International Women’s Day, staff of AirtelTigo interacted and donated to students of the Presbyterian Senior High and Technical School, Larteh in the Eastern Region during their Student Representative Council week.

During the day-long event, staff spent the day interacting with the students on various topics including embracing equity, Goal setting and Science Technology Engineering and Mathematics (STEM). The students – comprising 70% females and 30% males were encouraged to explore various career paths and not restrict themselves only to what they learn in senior high school.

Presenting a cheque of GHS 15,000 and books to the students, Atul Narain Singh, Chief Marketing Officer at AirtelTigo, encouraged them to focused on their education and continue to do their best in their various courses. “He spoke about the vast opportunity available to them in a telecommunication company like AirtelTigo and expressed the willingness to have some of them intern or work with AirtelTigo after school in future.

AirtelTigo empowers students of PSHTS

Nancy Assor Asiedu-Amrado, Head of Brands and Communication at AirtelTigo, in her interaction with the students, highlighted the importance of maintaining balance in their academic life and gave them some goal-setting tips as well as she encouraged the students to learn how to say no to sexual advances and to stand up for themselves, if they find themselves in similar circumstances. She also cautioned the teachers not to entertain any form of bias in teaching the young girls and boys, but embrace equity.

Alex Offei-Lartey, AirtelTigo Head of Digital Marketing and New Product, also discussed the importance of attaining equity. He spoke on the topic “Boys are not left out: gender equity.” He spoke with the male students, who shared instances of how they supported and helped the female students.

The Director of Due Diligence and Planning, Esther Gyamfi, also shared a personal experience of how she leveraged on technology to advance in her career. Her life story provided inspiration for the students.

Sarah Odei-Amoani, GMB 22 representative for Eastern Region and Ghana’s STEM Ambassador was also present to grace the occasion. she urged the students to explore the many possibilities open to them in STEM education.

In her closing remarks, the headmistress of the school, Gladys Oforiwaa Okyere Otu, expressed gratitude to AirtelTigo saying. “On behalf of the staff and students of Presbyterian Senior High and Technical School, we are extremely grateful for your time and donation. For busy professionals like you to take time off your schedules on a weekday to travel and spend the whole day with us, it makes us feel special.”

Staff of AirtelTigo also toured the school facilities and had informal one-on-one sessions with the students.

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