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Guest Blog: 5 Of The Toughest Questions Women Have Asked Me

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IMG 0333Ghanaian lifestyle and relationship blogger, Kwadjo Pinyin shares some of the toughest questions women have been asking her.  “Does this dress make my tushie look big?” This inquiry is one of the cruelest questions women continue to ask men. The answer will always be YES and if you protest with, “Are you sure you’re not just saying that?” I will counter with,  “Hun, will I ever lie to you about your enormous tushie?” I’ve been a bachelor for seventeen crazy, fun and sometimes miserable years. Name any tricky question women love to ask and I guarantee you, I’ve heard it before. I’ve survived flirty questions like, “Why are you obsessed with my boobs?” to serious ones like “Is my best friend prettier than me?”  I can answer almost every generic “getting to know you” question in my sleep. Women, in general, are very curious creatures and the reason for their curiosity is simple; men are mysterious and we barely allow anyone close to our inner thoughts and our past. Some women have adapted to our propensity to tip-toe around questions and conjured up some interestingly loaded questions. Five of such loaded questions totally spooked and left me speechless and running for the hills. Without much ado, here are the five toughest questions women have asked me on the dating scene. Question One:

Her: “Do you collect any trophies or keepsakes from women you have sex with?” Me: Total silence
My silence pretty much gave me away. Hey, don’t judge but I do have some waist beads and other unmentionables stashed away somewhere. I was once with a woman whose dress was so tight, I had to go find a pair of scissors to help her out of it.  Of course, I had to keep the shredded dress just for kicks and grins.  Come on! How many times does a man get to liberate a woman from her tight clothes with a pair of scissors just before sex? I was totally not ready for this question. The woman who asked must have been into some fetishes like me. How else can she come up with a freaky question like this one Question Two:
Her: “We have a lot of mutual friends on Facebook, don’t we?” Me: “Yeah, we do.” Her: “So how many of my female mutual friends do you personally know?” Me: “Uhmmmm, maybe 5.” Her: “Oh great! Who are they? Also, out of the 5, which ones have you hit on before or slept with?” Me: “Wait, what?”
This question sounds really innocent but it took me a minute to wrap my brain around where she was going with this inquiry. First of all, she set up the sequencing of questions in a way which forced me to actually look at every single female mutual friend we had. Secondly, I had no clue I had actually hit on two of her friends’ years earlier until I looked.  I noticed she paid very close attention to my non-verbal reaction to every picture I checked. Most women absolutely hate it when they start dating a guy and walk into a friend who goes like, “Hey, your man came after me.” Or “Your man came after me and I turned him down.” Or “Your man and I used to have a “thing.” This question was a clever way for her to figure out if I had been romantically involved with any of her friends. Question Three:
Her: “Hey, do you remember the names of all your exes?” Me: Nervous laugh followed by a spontaneous scalp inch
I am a pro at answering questions like “How many women have you slept with?” and “How many exes do you have?”  Up to that point, no one had asked for names. Her ask for names made the question personal for me. Of course, I could not remember the names of all my exes so I had to develop a brain freeze and zip up. Her question was a clever and twisted version of “How many women have you dated?’ Question 4
Her: “What do you think about when we’re having sex?” Me:  (Long pause) “What kind of question is that?”
Ah! Women, they notice everything. This question got me flat-footed because she was on to something.  The truth is, I mostly pictured one of her hot friends during the act. She pointed out that I hardly look at her when we have sex and I keep her on all fours for the most part. Bonkers! I was definitely busted but I was not about to respond with something like; “I’m sorry Esi, but I’m mostly thinking about Akua’s perfectly shaped boobs every time we have sex.” Question 5:
Her: “How long do you think we will be together?” Me: “I don’t understand the question.” Her: “How long do you think our relationship will last?” Me: “Can we discuss this question later?”
Some men, myself included, dread women bringing up marriage until we’re ready to take the relationship to the next level.  Most men can tip-toe around this question and come out just fine. This question, however, did not explore marriage possibilities.  She wanted to know if I had long-term plans for the relationship. Instead of asking the same boring and generic “are you going to marry me?” question, she took a different and very clever approach. How do you respond to a question like that when long-term plans have not crossed your mind yet? If I say I don’t see us ending the relationship anytime soon, I may be committing to marriage. Consequently, I can’t respond with, “I really like you and I truly enjoy every second we spend together. But, I don’t think we will make it past 6 months.” Every guy will be hit with a loaded and tricky question at some point in their lives from a woman. My advice is; don’t panic, just breathe.  If you don’t know the answer, its best to just shut up. Don’t lie either because that is disrespectful. Then again, how you respond to a loaded question will also depend on how much the woman wants to torture you. Keep the tough questions coming, Ladies.  Y’all doing very good! By Kwadjo Panyin IMG 0218]]>

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Kobina Ansah’s IN THE PANTS OF A WOMAN Is Happening This Weekend At National Theatre

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Playwright Kobina Ansah’s much-talked-about play, IN THE PANTS OF A WOMAN, is slated for this weekend at National Theatre. A musical with 16 original songs, the play highlights the rape culture of Ghana and how our society has condoned abusers for far too long.

“Rape is a taboo topic in our society and we hope, through this play, to demystify it and normalize conversations around it. By so doing, many victims can speak out,” Kobina Ansah opines.

The play is suitable for all ages of people. It is an educative piece which seeks to tackle toxic narratives that promote a culture of rape.

IN THE PANTS OF A WOMAN is Ghana’s first-ever original musical on rape. It is scheduled to be shown at National Theatre on Saturday, 20th and Sunday, 21st April, 2024. Showing times are 3pm and 7pm each day.

Source: Scribe News

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Is Nighttime Skincare Different From Your Daytime Routine?

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Most of us know that we need to wash our face at least once a day and apply some moisturizer in the morning. If you want truly ageless, beautiful skin, you need to do a bit more than that. Both daytime and nighttime skincare routines are a crucial part of maintaining healthy skin.

Importance Of Nighttime Skincare

Why does nighttime skincare matter? When you are asleep, the repair systems of your body go to work. Your skin gets more blood flow. DNA helps to repair cells. Collagen increases. By adding a nighttime skincare routine, you assist your body in its rebuilding job. Here are some basic steps you can adapt and adjust for your evening skincare regimen:

  1. Remove makeup.
  2. Gently clean your skin.
  3. Exfoliate two or three nights per week.
  4. Apply a serum.
  5. Moisturize.
  6. Apply eye cream.

Look for products that work with your skin type, such as the best night moisturizer for oily skin. You can also choose serums that target specific problem areas. Worried about your neck? There’s a serum for that.

Differences Between Day And Night Skincare

Your morning skincare routine should be all about protecting the skin. You need to get it ready for the day ahead. First, you will cleanse it. Then think about what your skin will face that day. Sun? You need a sunscreen with an SPF of at least 30. Pollutants? You need a protective serum. Overly dry indoor air? You need a strong moisturizer.

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At night your skincare should help calm and heal your skin. Skin rollers are good for soothing and increasing blood flow. Masks remove impurities. Nighttime serums should heal and rebuild.

Sleep is an important part of your skincare. Lack of good sleep contributes to stress which manifests itself in your skin. Failure to sleep prevents your body from performing the rebuilding process.

When sleep proves to be allusive, try the following:

  • Calming herbal teas, like chamomile, before bedtime
  • Yoga or other meditative practices
  • Avoiding all electronic devices an hour before bedtime
  • Natural sleep aids, such as melatonin strips
  • Reducing the temperature of your bedroom

A healthy nighttime skincare regimen can be a part of your day’s winding down and prepare you for a good sleep.

Anti-Aging Skincare

Skin showing signs of aging also benefits from day and night routines. If your skin is thinning, wrinkling in excess, developing age spots, or becoming abnormally dry, it’s time to use skincare products specifically for aging.

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The best skin care for aging skin will include moisturizers that improve collagen synthesis and serums with hyaluronic acid. Check for ingredients that lessen sun spots and fine lines around the eyes. An evening mask can deliver an extra-potent shot of moisture.

Are you ready to improve your skincare routine? Visit local retailers to try out product samples. Search online brands for a wider variety of specialty skincare options. Whichever products you choose, create morning and evening regimens that work with your schedule and your body. If it’s too difficult, you won’t maintain it. Simplicity is key to success.

 

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MTN Climax Eidul Fitr with Cultral Day Celebration

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MTN Ghana concluded this year’s Eidul Fitr celebrations with cultural events in Accra Newtown and Kumasi. The cultural events brought together various ethnic groups in the communities to showcase their rich culture in vibrant durbars.

Leaders of the ethnic groups led their delegations with traditional performances. The event featured live performances from dance groups and artists during the durbars. The cultural day platforms were used to share goodwill messages and to address community issues. In Kumasi, chiefs paraded from the central Mosque through Manhyia, Allabar, and ended at Kumasi Zongo. Health screening exercises were also included in the activities. Residents were screened for Hepatitis B, Blood Pressure, HIV, Malaria, and had their sugar levels checked.

In addition to these activities, the CEO of MTN Ghana, Stephen Blewett, in solidarity, celebrated with Muslim employees at MTN House. MTN Regional leadership also held similar engagements with Muslim employees in all 16 regions.

Before the cultural day, MTN Ghana presented food items and cash to the National Chief Imam, His Eminence Dr. Sheikh Usmanu Nuhu Sharubutu, and Regional Chief Imams in Ashanti, Western, and Northern regions. This year, a total of GHS100,000 was committed to the purchase of items for the celebration of Eidul Fitr in the three regions. The items presented included rice, cartons of vegetable oil, packs of mineral water, soft drinks, rams, and cash.

In Accra, Salihu Abu, Senior Manager for Customer Relations and Credit Management, led the delegation to the National Chief Imam and expressed his appreciation on behalf of MTN for the support, patronage, and loyalty of MTN’s customers across the country. He expressed gratitude for their continued support of MTN’s activities and the warm reception the company has received over the years.

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The National Chief Imam, Dr. Sheikh Osmanu Nuhu Sharubutu, received the items and thanked MTN for its continuous support. He also prayed for the company’s success, saying, “We are grateful for this gesture that you have done. May Allah increase your business and activities.”

The donations in the Ashanti, Western, and Northern regions were led by Mr. Simon Amoh, Senior Manager Regional Sales, Prince Owusu Nyarko, Senior Manager Southwest, and Kwame Aseye Akude, Manager Retail Experience Northern Business District.

MTN has been supporting the Muslim Community for 16 years during Eid-ul Fitr celebrations through donations and the organization of events in Nima, Accra New Town, Kumasi, Kasoa, and Tamale. The company also supports the National Hajj Board annually in the organization of the pilgrimage to Mecca.

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Gavi and UNICEF welcome approval of new oral cholera vaccine

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Gavi, the Vaccine Alliance, and UNICEF welcome the news that a new oral cholera vaccine (OCV), Euvichol-S, has now received WHO prequalification and can be made available to countries around the world. The prequalification of this new product will help EuBiologics, the manufacturer, produce more volumes of vaccine, faster, and at a lower cost – a key step to expanding supply amidst the ongoing acute global upsurge of cholera outbreaks.

Today’s approval will help increase the overall supply of OCV available in 2024, with approximately 50 million doses now forecasted to be available to the global stockpile this year, compared to 38 million in 2023. Euvichol-S is an important product innovation: a simplified formulation of Euvichol-Plus that reduces the number of vaccine components – delivering a vaccine that studies have shown remains equally effective against key cholera serogroups while lowering production cost and complexity – thus allowing for larger volumes to be produced faster.

Cholera has been surging globally since 2021, with high case fatality rates despite availability of simple, effective and affordable treatment. The large number of outbreaks has led to unprecedented demand for vaccines from impacted countries. While global OCV supply has increased eighteen-fold between 2013 and 2023, the large and sustained spike in demand has put a strain on the global stockpile of OCV. Partners and countries are working urgently on cholera response, prevention and control measures in the face of this crisis, and have called on countries, manufacturers and others to support. Most recently, Gavi, UNICEF and partners announced the largest ever global deployment of cholera diagnostics to support surveillance and response.

“Prequalification of Euvichol-S represents a lifeline for vulnerable communities around the world,” said Dr Derrick Sim, Managing Director of Vaccine Markets & Health Security at Gavi. “Every vaccine dose delivered through Gavi programmes today represents years of planning and investment to shape the market so supply matches countries’ needs. The approval of this new product could not have come at a more important time given the acute upsurge of cholera outbreaks we are seeing worldwide. We commend EuBiologics for their role in ensuring countries around the world have access to cholera vaccine as part of their response toolkit.”

EuBiologics is currently the only supplier of OCV to the global stockpile, although other manufacturers are expected to have products available in the coming years. Gavi, the Vaccine Alliance works to shape the OCV market, and funds the global stockpile of OCV doses, along with transport and vaccination activities in lower-income countries. UNICEF leads on procurement and delivery of doses to countries. Use of the stockpile for emergency response is overseen by the International Coordinating Group for Vaccine Provision (ICG), led by WHO.

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“Despite cholera being preventable and easily treatable, children continue to suffer from this potentially fatal disease. UNICEF has already secured access to all the available doses of the just-approved vaccine and will deliver these to the countries at the highest possible speed,” said Leila Pakkala, Director of UNICEF Supply Division. “The approval means that UNICEF can increase the procurement and delivery of cholera vaccines by more than 25%, pushing back harder on deadly cholera outbreaks.”

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Isap Music Drops ‘Naomi’ As First Single of The Year

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Ghanaian Hip-Life/Hip-Hop artiste, Isap Music has today officially released his premiere single of the year, “Naomi” on all digital streaming platforms.

The new single is an Afrobeats record that boarders on the thin line between love and obsession.

Isap Music opens with a reassurance for that special someone as he plans to put a ring on her finger soon. His sweet-singing voice together with the charming lyrics not only wins the heart of “Naomi,” but the listener as well.

On the DCM Records produced track, Isap Music brings a different energy to his first single of 2024, building a strong anticipation for subsequent releases as the year progresses.

However, until then, “Naomi” is simply one of the best Ghanaian Afrobeats songs released so far this year.

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Isap Music’s spectacular performance on the two minutes 27 seconds track has everything; vocals, lyrics, storytelling and ad-libs, all on point.

It’s hard to believe such a good song was produced from another person’s experience but that is exactly how the song came to life.

In an online interview with Amplify Ghana, Isap Music disclosed that “Naomi” was inspired by a friend.

“The love song was actually inspired by a friend who was so much into his girl that he couldn’t stay a day without hearing her voice,” he said.

The latest single comes after his collaboration with 2022 VGMA Best Rap Performance award winner Lyrical Joe, Suuparstar TZ and Siicie on “Yesu Frɛwo” released last year.

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Isap Music is one of the exciting new voices in the music scene. This new release, “Naomi” continues his streak of superb releases. Gaining recognition as one of the few street preachers, Isap Music’s versatility as an artist is of no doubt. He continues to share different messages and produce bangers in many genres.

“Naomi” by Isap Music is currently available on all digital streaming platforms.

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Immediate Nexus: Your Gateway to Free Investment Education in 2024

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Within the ever-changing financial environment, it’s an issue of immense importance that an investor remains at the forefront. Immediate Nexus is a beacon that avails the indispensable resources and insight to navigate an investor through manning the complexities in investment come 2024 and thereafter. Let’s delve into why immediate-nexus-ai.com is your ultimate gateway to free investment education in 2024.

Understanding Immediate Nexus: Your Gateway to Free Investment Education in 2024

It is nothing less than a whole ecosystem to be built with the idea of allowing investors at different levels of experience to obtain the knowledge and tools needed to gain a foothold in this business. Whether you are a seasoned investor or one learning the ropes of how to dabble in the finance world, the Immediate Nexus has got your back.

The Evolution of Investment Education

Traditional teachings of investment have a very short shelf life due to the fast pace with which technology and the trend of the global markets move. Immediate Nexus fills that need by providing modern investors with current, readily accessible, practical information.

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Free Resources for All

But what really strikes the most is the kind of free education toward all people without having any expense of seminars or the elite high-cost memberships. Truly, Immediate Nexus advocates that financial literacy should be made available to all, no matter where you come from or belong in terms of background or current financial status.

Expert Insights and Analysis

Investment can be cumbersome to wade through, especially for beginners. Immediate Nexus makes it easier with an expert insight and analysis curated from none but the best sources. Be it market trends or effective investment strategies, everything is there to make your decision wise.

Harnessing the Power of Community

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It doesn’t need to be a lonely journey. Immediate Nexus is a dynamic, live community where investors network, share ideas, and draw wisdom from one another. That interactive approach makes it conducive to learning at the same time, availing valuable networking opportunities.

Why Choose Immediate Nexus?

While Immediate Nexus may be a new kind of educational platform, in many ways, it is poised to soon become the go-to solution for those seeking to grow and succeed in the world of investing. Here are ten great reasons why you need to make it your go-to resource this year.

  • Holistic Content: From the guidelines of a beginner investor to the strategies which are to be followed at an advanced level, Immediate Nexus encompasses and provides information relevant to every single stage an investor might be in.
  • User-Friendly Interface: The platform friendliness comes with ease of navigating through the site, intuitive design, and a friendly interface.
  • Timely Updates:** Actual happenings in the capital and financial markets, economic development, and investment opportunities.
  • Interactive Learning: Engjson Quizzes, Interactive Tutorials, and Live Webinars assist learners in polishing skills and strengthening their learning.
  • Community of Trust: Be a part of an elite community of like-minded investors, share knowledge and support each other in growth.

Conclusion

Your Gateway to Free Investment Education in 2024 is not a platform—it’s a revolution, an immediate nexus revolutionizing ways people think about investment education. Equip your financial future with all the expert insights and resources that you would have needed, including a lively community. Join the movement today and take your first steps toward financial freedom.

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