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550x FriendzoneLifestyle and relationship blogger, Kwadjo Panyin (musingsofanafricanbachelor), gets into in conversation with the ladies on the ‘He Is Just A Friend’, situation. Check it out: This piece is for the ladies. Fellas, you are welcome to stick around but you have to sit your hiney in the corner and hush up.  I need you to stay quiet while I spew some words of wisdom to the ladies. Fear not, I am not planning to give away our bro secrets. Okay, I lied, I will give the ladies a smidgen but not much. I have a few things to tell them and trust me, this is for your own good. Okay, ladies, it’s just you and me now. So check this out, I am mesmerized by you.  I want to gobble you in places some fellas won’t.  I want to graze you in places some brothers won’t. Your satisfaction is my top priority and I have the tactical expertise to execute.  (Okay, that was corny as heck!)

Anyway, I pulled you aside because there is something I want to tell you.  I really, really want to see you naked. Hold up! Wait! Don’t be mad, I am just kidding! Please don’t leave. Okay, Kwadjo, snap out of it and get the freakiness out of your system.
Okay, let me get serious and tell you an open secret about men.  Do me a favor and check the instant messages on your social media.  Do you see all those fellas chatting with you?  Fellas like me who say hello every so often just to see how you doing and check on you.  Almost all of them want to see you naked but you already know that, don’t you? Alright, let’s forget about those fellas in your IM. They are toothless and weak because you have them at arm’s length. Let’s take a look at the fellas in your WhatsApp and those texting you on your digits. Fellas like me who have managed to break free from your IM jail and have your phone number. Remember those fellas? Those of us who stuck around after we discovered that you are dating someone but somehow, you wanted to keep us close as “just” friends. Those of us who die a little on the inside everything we see a picture of you and your man or when we run into you and him together. Remember those fellas? Those of us who hit on you when we first met only for you to decide that we are better off as “just” friends. Those of us wondering hopelessly how you ended up dating a “loser” when you can be with us. Those of us waiting around for your man to screw up. Remember those fellas? Those of us who stuck around to listen for hours as you complained about how bad your man treats you. Those of us who listen to your sob stories and secretly hate the fact that you are still boinking your man. Remember those fellas? Those of us who rarely press you about how we feel about you because we are “just” friends.  Those of us who keep denying our true intentions to see you naked. Those of us who are gurus at keeping things superficial and normal because we are “just” friends after all. IMG 6190 It is relatively seamless for most of us to switch quickly from wanting to see you naked to becoming your friend. It’s not a problem at all. Easy peasy! With time, you may forget the fact that some of us wanted to see you naked.  With time, you may forget the fact that some of us wanted a real relationship with you. Don’t worry, we will eventually forget the reasons why we wanted you in the first place. After all, how difficult is it to forget how amazing, accomplished or hot you are?  Just give us some time and we will become great friends! I think that is enough sarcasm for one day. Ladies, permit me to speak to the fellas who stuck around just for a quick second.  Fellas, some of you reading this may feel unfairly judged by what I am about to say.
Here is the deal; we fellas are the reason why some men and women cannot be “just” friends. Yeah, I said it.  If you are mad then get mad but deep down, you know it’s true.
Ladies, back to you. Is it possible for men and women to be “just” friends? Absolutely! We all have friends of the opposite sex, don’t we? However, we the fellas hold the key to whether the friendship will work or not and here is why.
A man can only be true friends with a woman if he does not want to see her naked.
If a guy and a girl appear to be best friends, one of them may secretly want to see the other naked.  My money is on the guy. Let me begin by stating the obvious. When we first approached you on social media or at the party, we did not ask for the recipe for Ghanaian Jollof, did we?  Nope, we wanted to be with you from a romantic standpoint.  (Please allow a quick plug in here; Ghanaian Jollof is simply delish and the best ever!!) We are “just” friends now and its all good but here is the problem.  You are still the same amazing, accomplished and hot chick we wanted when we first met. Don’t get me wrong, we fellas have self-control; at least most of us do. However, do not forget the key point I mentioned earlier; true friendship only works if the fella is totally past his desire to see you naked or if he has given up his wish to start a romantic relationship with you. Being around someone you find sexually attractive is one of the worst ways to avoid having sex with that person.  You can test this theory if you want to. Ask the same guy who initially expressed a romantic interest in you what he will do should he find you in his bed in your birthday suit. Actually, don’t ask him, just creep into his bed full monty and watch what happens next. IMG 6191 I’ve heard some fellas talk about being “friend zoned” in such situations.  Permit me to air some grievances I personally have with the notion of “friend zones.” The term “friend zone” has become so entrenched on the dating scene that it’s almost never questioned.
The Friend zone isn’t real and it’s a myth made up by some fellas who got rejected because they were just not compatible or good enough.
The idea that a nice guy is owed sex or a romantic relationship by a female friend is ridiculous. Most women know if they want you romantically or sexually from the get-go. There are no gray areas here. When fellas use the term “friend zone,” they are indubitably attempting to shame a woman for hurting their feelings. I understand that rejection sucks and it hurts. However, women are in control of who they want to be with and they have every right to say no if they don’t like you.
Women don’t owe us shit!
In reality, it’s not impossible to pull off a friendship with a member of the opposite sex but it’s definitely not as easy as swallowing some fufu.  Attraction and sex always get in the way. I am not discouraging men and women from being friends. On the contrary, I am presenting these open secrets to encourage us to closely examine our friendships with the opposite sex. Hopefully, some poor soul will be saved from months or years of pointless yearning if they simply refuse to accept those dreaded words; ‘Let’s be “just” friends’ Ladies, if you want to continue this conversation or if you want to delve deeper into this fun topic, I do offer private one-on-one tutorials. You know where to find me. My only request is that we become friends first.   By Kwadjo Panyin IMG 0050 Photo Credits; Models: Yaa Sarponmaa, Selassie & Christabel Photographer: Ark Hinson]]>

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DJ Khaled Announces Second Annual We The Best Foundation Golf Classic On June 12 & 13 in Miami Beach !

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GRAMMY® Award-winning, global megastar DJ Khaled proudly announces the return of his annual WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC for the second year in a row.

For 2024, the mega-popular charity event expands to two days on Wednesday June 12 and Thursday June 13 in Miami, FL. Given the demand by countless superstar artists, A-list athletes, and entertainers to participate, he needed to stretch the proceedings over two days!

Once again, the event will be sponsored by Jordan Brand, and all proceeds support the We The Best Foundationand its numerous efforts to bolster education. Stay tuned for the multitude of exciting confirmed guests, and more.

Khaled created a cultural groundswell and personally appeared on ESPN’s SPORTSCENTER to break the news of the second installment of the WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC today. Watch HERE.

Regarding the return of the WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC, he commented, “Last year, the WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC brought out so many friends and family to make a difference, play some great golf, and have an incredible day for a great cause. This year, we’re going even bigger, and we thank everyone for their continued support. TEE UP AND BLESS UP!”

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Last year, the inaugural WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC hosted Serena Williams, pro golfers Michael Block and Bubba Watson, Odell Beckham, JR., Shannon Sharpe, Victor Cruz, Jalen Rose, Terrell Owens, Marcus Jordan, Jeezy, Quavo, The-Dream, Swizz Beatz, Timbaland, Fat Joe, Cedric The Entertainer, Joey Fatone, and more. The foundation raised over $500,000 which benefited the enrichment of children and youth through educational programming, scholarships, and extracurricular activities.

More guests and partners for 2024 will be unveiled soon.

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Ghanaian activist hugs over 1,100 trees in an hour to set record

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An environmental activist and forestry student from Ghana has set a new world record for the most trees hugged in one hour. (more…)

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BEING A JUDGE FOR THE MODEL INTERNATIONAL IS A BIG PORTFOLIO – EX MP BARBARA AYISI ASHER

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Former Member of Parliament for Cape Coast North constituency in the Central Region, Barbara Ayisi Asher, took on the prestigious role of judging the Cape Coast Audition for The Model International, adding yet another feather to her cap of accomplishments. Not only did she oversee the audition, but she also secured her place as a guest judge on the show itself, solidifying her position as not just a politician but a prominent figure in the world of fashion and entertainment.

The Cape Coast Audition, which served as a gateway for aspiring models in the region, marked the beginning of an exciting journey towards discovering West Africa’s next top talents in modeling. However, the spotlight now shifts to the bustling city of Accra, where the next round of auditions is set to take place.

Scheduled for Saturday, the 4th of May 2024, the Accra audition will be hosted at the prestigious Gold Coast Restaurant, conveniently located near Rockstone’s Office, Cantonments. Doors will open at 10 am, welcoming female West Africans between the ages of 18-26, residing or schooling in Ghana, to showcase their flair and passion for the runway, the camera and the screens.

Registration for the audition comes at a nominal fee of GHS100.00, providing participants with a chance to compete for the coveted title of The Model International, mouth-watering contracts and $2000.00 cash prize. To secure a spot in the audition line-up, aspiring models can register online at www.themodelinternational.com/register or seek assistance by contacting Esther, via call or WhatsApp on +233 50 890 6222.

The Model International promises to be a spectacle of talent, elegance, and glamour, captivating audiences across the nation. Set to premiere on Metro TV from the 1st of June 2024, viewers can tune in every Saturday at 8 pm to witness the unfolding drama and excitement of the competition.

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As the anticipation mounts and the countdown to the grand premiere begins, the stage is set for an exhilarating journey towards declaring the next face of West African modelling and fashion. With Barbara Ayisi Asher involved, The Model International is poised to redefine standards of cat walking with grace, elegance in front of the camera and shaping the future of the fashion industry one runway at a time.

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African Development Bank appoints Ambassador Jalel Trabelsi as Special Envoy for Middle East and North Africa and Gulf Region

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The President of the African Development Bank Group Dr. Akinwumi Adesina  has appointed career diplomat Ambassador Jalel Trabelsi as his Special Envoy for the Middle East and North Africa (MENA) and Gulf Region.

Ambassador Trabelsi brings to the role over 30 years of experience as a highly accomplished and distinguished diplomat.

As Special Envoy for MENA and the Gulf Region, Ambassador Trabelsi will help to foster diplomatic and strategic engagements within the MENA and Gulf Region, focusing on the Bank’s strategic priorities, strengthening partnerships and mobilizing public and private sector resources at scale to deliver transformational projects in Africa.

A Tunisian citizen, Ambassador Trabelsi’s diplomatic career is marked by significant roles and contributions. He served as Minister Plenipotentiary for African Affairs, and was the Ambassador of Tunisia to Nigeria, Ghana, Benin, Sierra Leone, and the Economic Community of West Africa (Ecowas). He also served as the Dean of the Council of Arab Ambassadors and in other roles as an Adviser to the Minister of Foreign Affairs, Head of the National Commission for Tunisia’s candidacy to the Presidency of the African Development Bank.

He is also a specialist in international law and taught Diplomatic International Law at university level.

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Ambassador Trabelsi holds an Advanced Master in Maritime and Aviation Law from Belgium’s Université Libre de Bruxelles, where he undertook his undergraduate degree in political science and international relations and passed with the highest honors. He also holds a Master’s degree in political science from the University of Tunis. He is multilingual with fluency in English, French, and Arabic.

Commenting on his appointment, Ambassador Trabelsi said: “I am extremely honoured to be appointed by Dr. Adesina to this role. As an African, I am motivated to continue to serve our continent and to contribute to the African Development Bank’s transformational work under the visionary leadership of Dr. Adesina. I will work to ensure the Bank maintains and further strengthens its excellent and fruitful cooperation and partnership with Middle East and North Africa (MENA) and Gulf Region.”

Dr. Adesina said: “I am delighted to have Ambassador Trabelsi as my Special Envoy for a region that holds a lot of promise for the Bank’s and Africa’s economic transformation. He has a strong track record and expertise in international relations and cooperation as well as international negotiation. He brings extensive knowledge in African, Arab, and European affairs and a deep understanding of the activities of the Bank, as well as other regional and international financial banking institutions.”

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KFC Ghana Introduces the “Streetwise Wings Meal” for ONLY GH¢30, KFC will also Embark on Donating 500 Streetwise Wing Meals Every Month to Basic Schools!

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KFC Ghana is excited to announce the latest addition to their Streetwise menu: the “Streetwise Wings Meal.” This new offering is a perfect blend of KFC’s signature crispy wings paired with a side of delightfully spicy rice, all for an affordable price of GH¢ 30.

The “Streetwise Wings Meal” is a flavorful adventure meant to satisfy your cravings without breaking the bank. The meal consists of three juicy and perfectly fried chicken wings, coated in KFC’s famous blend of herbs and spices. To complement the crispy wings, the meal includes a generous serving of spicy rice—a hearty side that packs a punch and ensures a fulfilling dining experience.

“KFC Ghana is always looking for ways to deliver value and satisfaction to our customers,” said the Digital and E-commerce Manager of KFC Ghana. “We believe that the Streetwise Wings Meal does just that, providing a balanced and flavorful meal at a price point that is accessible for everyone. It’s a perfect choice for a quick lunch or a delicious dinner on the go.”

The Streetwise Wings Meal is now available for order through the KFC Ghana App, with options for delivery, in-store pickup, or dine-in. The App is designed to provide the utmost convenience for customers, allowing for seamless ordering and payment. You can download the app from the Apple App Store or Google Play Store and get your meal with just a few taps on your smartphone.500 Donation of Streetwise Wings Meal

KFC assures that all meals are prepared following the highest standards of quality and hygiene, ensuring that customers not only get a delicious meal but also a safe one.

So, whether you’re in the mood for a quick snack or a full meal, the new Streetwise Wings Meal is here to make your day a little more flavorful. Head to the nearest KFC or get the app now to enjoy this spicy new treat!

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In addition to offering the delectable “Streetwise Wings Meal,” KFC Ghana is expanding its community support by announcing a generous donation campaign and will be donating 500 Streetwise Wing Meals at selected basic schools every month across the country. This initiative invites customers or social media users to nominate a school for a chance to enjoy this amazing offer, illustrating KFC Ghana’s commitment to giving back to the community. With the addition of this charitable action, KFC Ghana reinforces its reputation as a brand that not only provides value through its meals but also invests in the welfare of its community and its employees. Updates will be communicated via KFC Ghana’s social media platforms. Don’t forget to follow the social media pages and nominate a school!

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Reasons Why People Go For Car Subscription

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For some time now, people engaged in car subscription services such as car replacement have become one of the most popular incorporations compared to conventional car ownership and leasing. These can be listed as the advantages of the inventive method to access vehicles proven to bring in many consumers. 

Why many people are now moving to car subscriptions

One of the main factors that affect the success of these car subscription services is the unparalleled flexibility they provide. Traditional car ownership or leasing has been the order of the day with long term commitments and the conscientious task of paying for petrol filling and car servicing. However, due to the nature of car subscriptions, such as short-term basis access, the ability to switch between different models depending on one’s needs can be achieved.

Lap of car subscriptions plan there is transparency and accurate prediction costs. While regular car ownership can accumulate a variety of expenditures, such as the buying price, interest for financing, insurance, fuel, services and so on. These expenses can trend up or down significantly at different times and are sometimes difficult to predict ahead of the other way around.  

The choice of a large selection of cars for car subscription services means that people can quickly get what they like and need from the huge range of cars. The type is lovely to those driven by the need to change the type of car they drive or those who need more than one right car simultaneously. For instance, they might settle for a compact city car for their daily journey on the weekdays and go for the large SUV in case of a weekend family excursion.

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Regular car ownership and leasing are very long-term and include significant risks; you must figure out many things. The single cash outlay for purchasing a vehicle is usually considerable compared to leasing, a progressive payment option usually with penalties if terminated before the contract period. These two also substitute each other for consumers facing the risk of fast depreciation, mechanical problems and possible high expenses related to repair.

Car subscription services allow users to sign up for a short period and to hear about insurance coverage. Many of our subscriptions last for a month, and in case you need to unsubscribe or put your membership on hold, you will need short notice. The indifference to long-term engagement speaks for those who cannot commit themselves for a long-term period or need to be bigger to decide on a considerable investment, Contact SwitchCars for vehicle subscription.

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Car subscription services are built to the notion of environmental stewardship, which has recently gained much more prominence.  Utilizing car subscriptions, shared mobility is encouraged by shifting people from traditional car ownership to eco-friendly, seeing as alternatives were provided.

 

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