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How to set up and maintain an ‘f buddy’ – here is the explanation

Published

5 years ago

May 13, 2019

Fuck buddy relationships keep on becoming trendier nowadays. Every year more and more people want to have no strings attached sex with various partners. A fewer amount of men and women like long-term relationships, which usually leads to marriages and numerous divorces. Therefore, people seek for sex without obligations. That is it.

I have read plenty of reviews and feedbacks about fuck buddies on various forums and dating platforms. And I have found out one specific advantage of such type of relationship that hundreds of people always mention. The general idea is that you can call a particular girl only when you want to have sex. Not her but you. We will call it fuck buddy relationship. You call her. She comes to your place. You have sex, and then she leaves. No obligations. Already interested? Continue reading to get the details.

Is such kind of relationship is well-accepted?

Psychologists call such relationships a notorious trend now. And they explain why. According to the latest investigations, more than 70% of modern females stop waiting for their men at home with dinner. Moreover, they do not really need men at all. Women can perfectly care for themselves. They are independent, and they ideally earn their living.

As a result, women are more interested in having sex without any obligations like marriage or dating. Like us, females have millions of unaccomplished secret sexual desires. And only men can help them come true in no string attached relationships. That is what contemporary society has a great need for.

Psychologists call such relationships “friends-with-benefits.” They have also recently informed that such a concept has been becoming prevalent since 2017. The society accepts such relationships more and more positively. Millions of people are involved now. It is not just a hookup. It has turned into a lifestyle where both sides correctly understand their roles.

Where to find a fuck buddy?

In the modern world there are plenty of ways people use to meet each other. Traditional places like street, bars, restaurants, trains, disco, college, or office still work. Of course, your probable fuck buddy can be a stranger from the nearby café, or she can be your school mate you had history classes with. It does not matter at all.

Alongside this, many people use the Web, which is more comfortable, more affordable, less time consuming, and absolutely anonymous. Nowadays, there are thousands of real fuck sitesallowing meeting a fuck buddy not only in your neighborhood but everywhere in the world. In Chicago, you have no strings attached relations with Lucy from the nearby shop. And when you are on leave in Paris, you can quickly find Sophia using one of the popular dating sites.

A fuck buddy relationship can also start after you have had sex with a friend of yours during a drunken birthday party. There are no borders for fuck buddy relationships now. Notwithstanding all the above, such type of relationship also should be worked on. Because you cannot just call a lady after casual sex and tell her like, “Hi, you are my sex buddy. Come to my place – I am going to fuck you.” It rarely works like this.

How to build friends-with-benefits relations?

When you want to set up a good fuck buddy relationships with a lovely woman, you must always consider her desires and fantasies, and respect her sexuality. In this relationship, everyone can make all secret dreams come true. Both you and your woman must immediately agree on the following: you are just partners for no strings attached sex. That is it.

No long-term relationships. No emotions. Just freaky sex where everything is possible. You do not go to the movies. You never have dinner together in any public place. You never make love. You meet and fuck! It is a crucial issue. No emotions. No love. No feelings. Just crazy fuck without obligations.

A genuine fuck buddy relationship, which millions of people like, reminds me of renting a car. You just use it when you need, and then go home without thinking about the consequences. The only thing you must always keep in mind in such relationships is that they never last forever. Therefore, you should thoroughly enjoy them while they continue. One of the most significant advantages of such a relationship is that you and your fuck buddy have the right to stop it whenever you wish without explaining the reason.

How to maintain strong fuck buddy relations?

Men should always keep their fuck buddies at arm’s length. Try not to reveal your feelings or personal life. You should always try to maintain mystery in your relationships.

The optimal quantity of your sex meeting should be thrice a week maximum. When a lady wishes more attention, say you are busy and cannot dedicate all your time to her. Say it once and do not explain your decision. She is not your wife or even girlfriend. She is just a fuck buddy. That is it. Such behavior is the best way to maintain a fuck buddy relationship.

Fuck your woman crazily. Allow her to do everything in sex. Be yourself and let all your secret sexual desires flow out of the cage. That is a real reason why you have met! Let all things in bed happen naturally.

Only sex must be the center of your relationships. Nothing else. No work issues. No hobbies. No children. No talking about everyday problems. No calls in the evening about your hard life. No commenting her posts on Twitter/Facebook. No sending her flirty private messages. Just crazy sex! It will undoubtedly strengthen and prolong your fuck buddy relationships.

Do not initiate any relationship talks. It is nonsense. Be ready that your fuck buddy will always be trying to convert you to her boyfriend because all girls are continually striving for stability and real emotions. Therefore, you must immediately put an end to such conversations and remind that you are only sex partners.

When you are together, you must devote yourself to this only woman. Turn on your imagination, follow her body desires, and fuck her in such a way she had never been fucked before. Only in this case, when you fuck buddy is completely satisfied, you will maintain your strong sex relationships, and your girl will not even be thinking about finding sex somewhere else.

Are there any risks of fuck buddy relationships?

There is the only but the most significant risk in all relationships that you set up with any other fuck buddy. When you are too emotional in sex, you can fall in love. It concerns both men and women. However, when it comes to feelings, it stops to be fuck buddy relationship. Especially when such feelings are not reciprocated. But both of you agreed to have just no strings attached sex. Therefore, you must always avoid any chances to become a couple with a long-term relationship purpose.

If you see that your fuck buddy is starting to get too attached to you, you must talk to her about it immediately. Just be calm and tender, and remind her about the primary purpose of your meeting. It is merely about sex. That is it. If she insists on being a couple and you do not need it, the best way out is to leave the woman and find another one. In this case, you are neither a bad nor a selfish person. You just have chosen such a lifestyle for yourself at the moment. And you need to find a fuck buddy who will undoubtedly share your values. That is only about it.

Therefore, if you feel such a risk in your fuck buddy relationships, there are two ways out: talk or leave. There is no third.

Verdict

Contemporary society has already turned to the formula or relationships without obligations. Everyone has bored of marriages and divorces. People desire to live and get real pleasure from life and sex. You cannot even imagine how many women are daily looking for casual sex three times a week. They do not need your heart – give them your body and everything you can do in sex. And both of you will be happy while going to your homes apart.

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Mr. Beast in Ghana: Surprising Visit Sparks Excitement

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11 mins ago

April 26, 2024

Ameyaw Debrah

World-renowned YouTuber Mr. Beast, known for his philanthropic acts, has been spotted in Ghana, specifically in Accra and Tema, sparking excitement among locals.

Wow, Mr Beast is in Ghana! Look at how boys are gathering to take pictures with him. pic.twitter.com/46gawXYWnJ
— Big Kay🇬🇭 (@OfficialBigkay) April 26, 2024

His visit has led to discussions about his choice of Ghana over other African countries, with some suggesting that the country’s popularity as a tourist destination played a role.

MrBeast is in Ghana and no one is talking about it? Make I step out more times I go get new phone or car saf pic.twitter.com/AUP9CSoDoV
— Kofi Ntim (@NtimBarima) April 26, 2024

Mr. Beast’s presence in Ghana is part of his global outreach, as he recently gifted a Ghanaian $25,000 as part of his X (Twitter) giveaway.

The YouTuber has been seen exploring the country and interacting with locals, with many expressing their desire to meet him and participate in his charitable endeavors.

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Stephen Appiah to contest John Dumelo and Lydia Alhassan in MP race for Ayawaso West Wuogon

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15 mins ago

April 26, 2024

Ameyaw Debrah

Stephen Appiah to contest John Dumelo and Lydia Alhassan

Former Black Stars captain Stephen Appiah is set to enter the political fray by rubbing shoulders with notable personalities in the upcoming general elections.

The former Juventus midfielder is believed to be lacing his boots to face the likes of John Dumelo and the incumbent member of Parliament for the Ayawaso West Wuogon Constituency Lydia Alhassan.

While Dumelo and Alhassan represents the NDC and NPP respectively, Appiah is expected feature in the elections as an independent candidate.

This was revealed by the Spokesperson of the Ayew family Fiifi Tackie via X on Friday afternoon.

“Stephen Appiah to contest Ayawaso West Wuogon constituency as an independent Parliamentary candidate,” he wrote.

If Stephen Appiah affirms the reported news, he will be following in the footsteps of other renowned figures in Ghana football who have indulged in politics recently.

Earlier this year, all-time top scorer of the Black Stars Asamoah Gyan was appointed as the sub-committee chair of Youth and Sports in the campaign committee of Dr Bawumia, the flagbearer of the ruling New Patriotic Party.

In acceptance of the appointment, Gyan emphasised the need to share hos ideas garnered through experience in the game.

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“I always ask myself, how do we create change if we don’t want to change? How do we spectate without being on the bench, and how do we score without being on the field?… All I know and will ever know, all I love and will ever love is SPORTS.” he stated.

Another figure in Ghana football who recently announced his intention to engage in partisan politics is Kwesi Nyantakyi, former Ghana Football Association (GFA).

The former football administrator showed up as one of the candidates to contest in the NPP primaries for the Ejisu constituency following the demise of incumbent John Kumah.

However, it didn’t pan out well for the former Wa All Stars owner as he lost disappointingly.

He garnered a paltry 35 votes after close to 1,081 delegates had cast their votes in the parliamentary primary of the New Patriotic Party (NPP) held in the Ejisu Constituency on April 13.

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Rebecca Osam: A Champion for Women’s Empowerment in Africa

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36 mins ago

April 26, 2024

Ameyaw Debrah

In a heartfelt social media post, Rebecca Osam, Managing Director of Reflo Company Limited, Reflo’s TV, and Femme Fatale Productions Limited, has pledged her full commitment to empowering young women.

Rebecca expressed her desire to move beyond mere inspiration and instead build a deeper connection with young women, offering guidance and support to help them achieve their goals.

Her passion for women’s empowerment stems from her experiences growing up in Africa, where she witnessed firsthand the oppression and lack of opportunities faced by women. This drove her to co-found The Florence Mensah Foundation with her mother, aiming to empower African women and girls, and encourage them to recognise their worth, strength, and potential.

Through her foundation and personal endeavors, Rebecca seeks to provide a supportive platform for young women to thrive. She aims to be a relatable figure, offering mentorship and encouragement to help them overcome challenges and achieve success on their own terms.

Rebecca’s dedication to empowering young women proves her leadership and commitment to creating positive change in her community. Her efforts serve as an inspiration to others, highlighting the impact one person can have in driving gender equality and women’s empowerment.

As Rebecca continues her work, her message resonates with young women across Africa: “Anything is possible, and I am here to support and cheer you on every step of the way.”

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Caradise Ghana Car Rental Facilitates Transportation for Global Christian Forum held in Accra

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2 hours ago

April 26, 2024

Ameyaw Debrah

Caradise Ghana Car Rental has once again successfully facilitated the transportation of over 240 participants from 60 countries across the globe for the recently ended Global Christian Forum in Accra, Ghana.

Numerous buses hauled the various participants from the Airport to their designated hotels from the 12th to 15th of April, 2024. Participants were then transported from their hotels to the conference grounds daily for the gathering of devoted Christians from the 16th to the 19th of April, 2024.

The forum began with a vibrant, joyful worship service held at Accra Ridge Church. The Rev. Dr. Casely Essamuah welcomed participants to Ghana and to the Fourth Global Gathering, and participants spent the day sharing their faith stories with one another across the litany of differences represented.

The forum was climaxed with a dinner and 25th anniversary celebration at the Action Chapel Internation Church hosted by Archbishop Nicholas Duncan-Williams.

After the forum, the participants took the opportunity to visit the Kwame Nkrumah Memorial Park and Mausoleum where they learnt about the great Pan-Africanist, Osagyefo Dr. Kwame Nkrumah and Ghana’s journey to inpendence.

The participants also spent a day in Cape Coast where they learnt about the millions of enslaved, dehumanised African men, women, and children at the Cape Coast Castle. Witnessing first hand how Africans were forcibly taken captive to the Americas, Caribbean, and Europe as objects of lucrative trade.

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DJ Khaled Announces Second Annual We The Best Foundation Golf Classic On June 12 & 13 in Miami Beach !

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3 hours ago

April 26, 2024

Ameyaw Debrah

GRAMMY® Award-winning, global megastar DJ Khaled proudly announces the return of his annual WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC for the second year in a row.

For 2024, the mega-popular charity event expands to two days on Wednesday June 12 and Thursday June 13 in Miami, FL. Given the demand by countless superstar artists, A-list athletes, and entertainers to participate, he needed to stretch the proceedings over two days!

Once again, the event will be sponsored by Jordan Brand, and all proceeds support the We The Best Foundationand its numerous efforts to bolster education. Stay tuned for the multitude of exciting confirmed guests, and more.

Khaled created a cultural groundswell and personally appeared on ESPN’s SPORTSCENTER to break the news of the second installment of the WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC today. Watch HERE.

Regarding the return of the WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC, he commented, “Last year, the WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC brought out so many friends and family to make a difference, play some great golf, and have an incredible day for a great cause. This year, we’re going even bigger, and we thank everyone for their continued support. TEE UP AND BLESS UP!”

Last year, the inaugural WE THE BEST FOUNDATION GOLF CLASSIC hosted Serena Williams, pro golfers Michael Block and Bubba Watson, Odell Beckham, JR., Shannon Sharpe, Victor Cruz, Jalen Rose, Terrell Owens, Marcus Jordan, Jeezy, Quavo, The-Dream, Swizz Beatz, Timbaland, Fat Joe, Cedric The Entertainer, Joey Fatone, and more. The foundation raised over $500,000 which benefited the enrichment of children and youth through educational programming, scholarships, and extracurricular activities.

More guests and partners for 2024 will be unveiled soon.