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How To Identify Red Flags During the Dating Stage

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When you know how to recognize manipulation and set personal boundaries, you build healthier relationships with people, both friendly and romanticly. Alarm bells will help you make the right impression about someone on the first date too. In this article, you will gain insights into the red flags you should be mindful of when meeting someone new and learn valuable lessons from these observations.

Why should you notice red flags?

In moments of falling in love, it is common to only see the positive sides of the relationship. The way our brain works is to blame for this: it tends to fill in the gaps and create the perfect picture of our lives. Falling in love with a self-created image is a common occurrence, and the excitement of it all can be easily misconstrued into something positive, even if there are warning signs. Science shows that our brain reacts to excitement and negativity similarly – so we need to watch out!

#Dating recently conducted a report that delves into the nuances of red flags during the first date, highlighting patterns and behaviors that millions of individuals collectively identify as warning signs. The study goes beyond generic advice, providing practical insights that help you navigate the complex dating landscape. 

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Studies like this show how important it is to recognize not only uncomfortable but also potentially harmful situations, therefore we have highlighted our own potential red flags below.

  1. They constantly complain

“The weather today is awful
They looked at me funny on the street
The coffee here is especially bad”. Sounds familiar? If someone complains about every little thing already on the first date, then this is already something to think about going forward. Some of this may seem trivial, but you should keep this red flag front of mind if a person maintains a negative attitude throughout your first conversations. This is the time they’re supposed to be the most excited and if they don’t match your energy, think about whether you want to continue seeing them.

  1. Rude to staff

How a person treats service personnel reveals much about their character. If they communicate rudely with waiters or baristas or make a fuss over waiting, it’s likely you are dealing with someone who may not respect other people. How a person treats others is important, and if they are not afraid to be rude to someone they don’t know, they could continue this rudeness throughout other areas of their life.

  1. Body shaming

It is unacceptable for anyone to comment on your first date about how you look, or what you eat and how much of it. Often, such comments can be covered up by concern but in fact, this is manipulation. It is important to learn to recognize genuine concerns and be able to defend your boundaries when needed.

  1. Stereotypical way of thinking

It is difficult to build a healthy relationship when someone sees the world through one lens. If they are full of generalizations about different genders, maybe they believe that women should always wear fancy clothes, or that men should be earning more money than women – this could lead to controlling behavior and you should stay clear.

We all know that it’s quite difficult to fit real people into boxes and that people should be free to live their lives how they please. Most likely, someone who sincerely believes in these stereotypes is most likely unhappy, and you will definitely be unhappy with them!

  1. Miscommunication turning into manipulation

Were they late for a date and didn’t let you know? Or maybe, they insisted on going to the park in winter, even though you wanted to go to the cinema? If this sounds familiar, maybe they aren’t listening or respecting your time. Of course, they may simply be absent-minded or caught in a traffic jam. But if, instead of an apology or a calm explanation of the situation, you receive excuses in response, then this becomes a red flag. And if, in the process, they try to shift the blame onto you, then this behavior becomes even worse.

  1. Doesn’t put you first 

If you find yourself always chasing for their attention, this could be a red flag. Maybe they are always hanging out with other people or ignore your texts and calls for a long period. This can lead to insecurities about how your date really feels about you. If their mind seems to be elsewhere, perhaps it is time to assess your future with this person.

  1. Idolizes you

This red flag is perhaps the most insidious and least obvious. We all like to feel special! “You’re not like the others” sounds like a compliment to start with, but unfortunately, this can also be a sign of future emotional abuse. For example, after a disagreement or a scenario your partner may end up stating that they thought you were perfect and aren’t supposed to put a foot wrong. It is important to distinguish this type of affection from real compliments.

How to use red flags correctly

Even though we all have our own personal preferences – maybe you really dislike someone in Crocs for example! Red flag advice should instead focus on alarm bells that everyone should look out for, whatever you like your partner to wear on their feet. 

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Remember, this is not a universal formula for choosing that ideal partner but it is important to learn how to recognize red flags. Advice can act as guidelines, and by increasing your understanding of red flags, you will be able to better recognize your needs and emotions and figure out what types of communication are comfortable for you, what is not, and what to do about it.

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Telecel Ghana Employee Volunteers Plants Over 5000 Trees in Massive Reforestation Effort

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Over 60 employee volunteers from telecommunications giant, Telecel Ghana in partnership with Forestry Commission joined forces with young students from Luom Basic Schools and Ghana International School (GIS) to plant thousands of seedlings to replace lost forest cover at the Chipa Tributary Forest Reserve in Agomeda.

As a way of furthering Telecel Ghana’s commitment to environmental sustainability and in line with the Green Ghana agenda, senior management, and employee volunteers dedicated their day to reforestation for a greener future. 

Chief Executive Officer of Telecel Ghana, Ing. Patricia Obo-Nai emphasised the importance of collective action to increase green cover and protect the environment. She said, “As a telco that operates with a purpose, this annual initiative is our contribution to sustaining the environment,” she added, “As part of our ESG strategy, we continue to partner with various stakeholders such as the Forestry Commission to create a sustainable environment for people and animals. This year, our employees, together with the school children are planting over 5000 seedlings to preserve the Chipa Tributary Forest Reserve.”

Read Also: Telecel Ghana Foundation’s Grow Girls in STEM initiative is training a new generation of engineers, scientists, tech enthusiasts, web designers and artists

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Gazetted as a reserve in 1968, the Chipa Tributary Forest Reserve in Agomeda in the Greater Accra Region serves as a habitat for animals and conserves the tributary that flows into the Dawhenya Dam. However, forestry officials reported that bushfires and firewood harvesting have destroyed around 50 hectares out of the reserve’s total 2,410 hectares. 

Mrs. Winifred Ohene-Wiafe, Manager for the Tema-Ada Forest District said, “We need more trees to offset the effect of urbanisation which has led to more buildings being put up and the depletion of trees in our cities. Tree planting is a worthy course so I will encourage every individual and institution to partake in reforestation to improve our environment.”

For Michela, a third-year secondary student of GIS, this is her first planting experience, and it has sparked an interest in reforestation. “Tree planting is important as it helps to restore areas that are depleted. It’s been a fun experience planting together with employees of Telecel Ghana and other students to improve air and environment quality. I’m excited that I am being part of making an impact.”

Ernest, a basic nine pupil and member of the Wildlife Club at the Luom Presbyterian School, located in one of the reserves host communities, believes the tree planting exercise will help address climate change. “There’s a saying that when the last tree dies, the last man dies. Joining to plant trees today will help purify the air we breathe and absorb carbon dioxide from the atmosphere. I advise other young people to plant trees to reduce global warming and the impact of climate change.”

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I took GHc7k loan from UT Bank to help my company – Bills Founder thanks Kofi Amoabeng

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chard Nii-Armah Quaye, has acknowledged founder of the defunct UT Bank,

Board Chairman of Bills Micro-credit Limited, Richard Nii-Armah Quaye, has acknowledged founder of the defunct UT Bank, Captain Prince Kofi Amoabeng.

According to the prolific businessman, Prince Kofi Amoabeng and his UT Financial Services provided him with a loan of GHc7k in the early stages of his establishment.

Delivering his address at the 15th anniversary celebration of Bills Micro-credit, formerly Quick Credit, Richard Nii-Armah Quaye thanked his fellow businessman for lending his company the money.

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Read Also: Bills Micro-Credit Limited officially launched

“Captain, thank you so much. I want everyone to know that the first loan our company took was GHc7,000 and it was from UT Financial Services”, he said, attracting applause from the audience.

Bills Micro-credit celebrated its 15th Anniversary on Thursday, May 20, with a plush dinner at the Kempinski Gold Coast Hotel in Accra.

Overall best staff, Charles Sampson, was presented with a brand new Hyundai Tucson vehicle and a cash prize of GHc200k by Bills Board Chairman, Richard Nii-Armah Quaye, for his long service and commitment.

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Fourteen other workers of Bills Micro-credit formerly, Quick Credit, were each gifted a brand new Toyota Vitz vehicle while 5 selected workers were specially rewarded with GHc200k cash prize each.

Fifteen dedicated customers of Bills received 55-inch TV set each plus interest-free loans of up to GHc100k for every customer.

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Bills customers, staff, receive 15 cars, TV sets & cash prizes at 15th Anniversary

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Bills Micro-credit has celebrated its 15th Anniversary with a plush dinner at the Kempinski Gold Coast Hotel on Thursday, May 20.

The excitement at the well-organized dinner heightened when loyal customers and long-serving staff were rewarded with brand new cars, cash prizes and TV sets.

Overall best staff, Charles Sampson, was presented with a brand new Hyundai Tucson vehicle and a cash prize of GHc200k by Bills Board Chairman, Richard Nii-Armah Quaye, for his long service and commitment.

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Fourteen other workers of Bills Micro-credit formerly, Quick Credit, were each gifted a brand new Toyota Vitz vehicle while 5 selected workers were specially rewarded with GHc200k cash prize each.

Read Also: Bills Micro-Credit Limited officially launched

Fifteen dedicated customers of Bills received 55-inch TV set each plus interest-free loans of up to GHc100k for every customer.

The night also saw a great array of distinguished personalities in attendance including the Special Guest of Honour; HRM King Tackie Teiko Tsuru ll and National Chief Imam; Sheikh Osman Nuhu Sharubutu.

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Also present at the dinner were Fidelity Bank MD; Julian Opuni, Businessman Prince Kofi Amoabeng, Special Advisor to President of Rwanda; Andrew Mwenda, Minister of State from Liberia; Hon. Reginald Nagbe, Vice Chancellor of UPSA; Prof. Kwaku Mensah Mawutor, GBC Director-General; Professor Amin Alhassan and a host of other guests.

The night was climaxed with thrilling performances by Amakye Dede, KiDi, Joyce Blessing, Nana Asaase, Bernard The Magician and Bethel Revival Choir with words of exaltation from Dr. Lawrence Tetteh.

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Hlevi’s Elijah FC setting football standards with minimal resources

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Elijah FC from Hlevi-Sogakope in the Volta Region is set to light up the Middle league come this July hosted at WAFA. (more…)

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Bolt Food Couriers Take Pledge to Uphold Highest Standards of Safety, Hygiene, and Food Handling

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In a move to enhance food delivery standards, Bolt Food couriers across Ghana have collectively taken a pledge to uphold the highest standards of safety, hygiene, and food handling. This follows an intensive training in partnership with the Food and Drugs Authority (FDA) to reinforce the importance of these practices in ensuring the delivery of safe and hygienic food to customers.

The pledge taken by the couriers underscores Bolt Food’s unwavering commitment to customer safety and satisfaction. With a focus on maintaining the integrity of food from preparation to delivery, couriers have vowed to adhere to strict protocols designed to protect both themselves and their customers.

The Acting Regulatory and Policy Head for Africa at Bolt, Weyinmi Aghadiuno, said: “Bolt Food as market leaders committed to best practices and standards in food delivery, launched this initiative to  equip couriers on the platform with essential knowledge and tools for excellence in food delivery. It is our collective responsibility as stakeholders in the food service ecosystem to ensure food reaches customers safely and in an hygienic manner. By adhering to these best practices of food delivery, we are not only protecting the public health of Ghanaians but also contributing to the overall well-being of our communities.”

Through this specialized training, couriers gained invaluable insights into food hygiene, safety practices, and proper handling techniques, reinforcing our dedication to the health and safety of the communities we serve.” She added.

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The workshop addressed a pressing need in the rapidly expanding online food delivery sector, where maintaining food safety and quality is crucial. Recognizing the rise in online food businesses, the FDA partnered with Bolt Food to enhance food safety measures across the industry.

Chief Regulatory Officer at the FDA, Dr. Edward Archer emphasized the importance for courier operators to understand the impact of food safety measures on their operations.

“The FDA is collaborating with various stakeholders, including courier services, to ensure they receive training in food safety. This training equips them to integrate food safety principles into their work, thereby reducing food safety-related complaints and illnesses,” Dr. Archer stated.

During the workshop, couriers were educated on several key aspects of food safety. The training covered personal hygiene practices, the importance of maintaining appropriate food temperatures during delivery, and protocols for handling food to prevent contamination. Emphasis was placed on ensuring that hot food stays hot and cold food stays cold, with timely delivery being a critical component of the process.

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Maserati Repair & Maintenance Tips in Dubai

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We all know Maserati cars demand special attention to keep them running smoothly and looking their best. Whether it is regular maintenance or timely check-ups, taking care & visiting a trusted car service Dubai for your Maserati is crucial to ensure its long life and performance. 

In this post, we’ll explore some essential tips for Maserati repair and maintenance in Dubai.

Regular Maintenance

Central to maintaining your Maserati’s best state is regular servicing at a trusted Maserati service center. Among the factors that might be responsible for preventing potential problems and lengthening the duration of parts in a car include normal oil change activities, examination of fluids, and tire rotation processes. 

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In addition, this makes it possible to discover if there are any chances for further development on issues by sticking to instructions concerning service schedules as directed by makers.

Finding the Right Maserati Repair Shop

Picking the appropriate service center for your vehicle is important when it needs Maserati repair. You should find a reputable car service center focusing on Maserati cars that have mechanics who are Maserati experienced technicians, who know how to handle these expensive vehicles well. 

A well-established Maserati repair shop is equipped with the right tools, diagnostic machines, and original Maserati parts to give your car the best care it deserves.

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Common Maserati Repair Issues

Even with proper maintenance, Maserati may encounter certain repair issues over time. Some common problems include:

1. Electrical System Glitches: Maserati automobiles are famed for having top-of-the-line electrical systems, some of which can sometimes stutter or fail in their operations. To avoid more trouble, it is important to tackle such problems promptly. 

2. Transmission Problems: Your Maserati’s performance will be considerably affected by things like rough shifting or leakages associated with the transmission, hence the need for a Maserati service professional to handle this car transmission repair.

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3. Brake System Repairs: Brakes are a critical safety feature, and any issues with brake pads, rotors, or calipers should be repaired immediately by a professional Maserati repair shop.

Preventive Maintenance

There are several preventive measures you can take to maximize the lifespan of your Maserati:

1. Driving Habits: Smooth acceleration, gentle braking, and avoiding excessive idling can reduce wear and tear on your Maserati’s components.

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2. Protecting the Exterior: Regularly washing your Maserati can help protect the paint and prevent premature fading or oxidation. Take your car for regular car washes and park it in a shade in Dubai’s heat.

Choose Munich Motor Works for a Comprehensive Car Check

Maserati repair and maintenance is something that Munich Motor Works has a good reputation for in Dubai. Munich Motor Works makes sure that your car is taken care of in the right way through their experienced team of professionals and modern technology garage coupled with the use of authentic Maserati parts. 

If you want any type of service such as routine service, complex replacements, or a complete vehicle check-up then consider bringing it here because they will offer you all these services without any disappointments in the end.

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To maintain the value of your Maserati for years to come while driving it on the roads in Dubai, proper maintenance coupled with timely repairs is imperative. Doing the following shall ensure that you enjoy driving a Maserati car and get the best service at Munich Motor Works.

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